Those 70ish Girls – Is Butter Considered Clutter? by LAV

NOTHING SMELLS SO GOOD AS HOMEMADE BREAD WITH BUTTER

I WOULD BE ABLE TO HAUL AWAY YOUR OLD JUNK IN MY GARBAGE TRUCK. LET ME KNOW!

SURE GLAD WE KEPT THESE WADERS AND BOOTS SO I COULD SIT IN A BOAT !

I’m trying to de-clutter our house with the arrival of a brand spanking cleaner new year.

Where can you reduce clutter in your life?

I’m thinking in terms of material objects because it’s not morally right to declutter people from my life- right? Plus it’s probably illegal.

Anyway, I’ve started with getting rid of linens from one cupboard. There were some hot pink sheets that I don’t remember buying nor using. They were snazzy but expendable. Also had some old NFL pattern sheets and pillow cases that our sons liked when they were young. Many various sizes and colors adorned the linens with both flannel types and something called Egyptian cotton type sheets which might’ve been used when they were building the Pyramids to wrap mummies, but I doubt it even though they’re pretty old. Besides the Ancient Egyptians couldn’t afford fancy sheets like I’ve bought at places like Bed, Bath and That’s All or Home Goodies or Tarjay.

You can get pretty wrapped up in discussing sheets and other bed linen.

I washed all the sheets, blankets and table cloths and after folding them, took them to a local benefit shop. It felt good to dump them…uh, donate them. My cupboard shelves looked much more organized and I even washed the shelves before repositioning the stuff to keep. Less was more; more or less.

Next I’ve moved onto closets which I am clearing out this week. It’s difficult to know what to keep because a lot of what’s in this first closet is sentimental. I have tried to decrease the amount of keepsakes from my parent’s but it all has lovely significance: WWII albums and photos. a 1940’s jewelry box, minus the jewelry, old letters, photos, a sewing kit, ancient newspaper articles all yellowed and brittle and many other items. I’m trying to concentrate certain things together, storing them in one storage box instead of three. I’m giving away a spice rack my grandfather from Pennsylvania made, a doll with marker drawing on its head, a needlepoint of the blue/green ocean with perfectly stitched in curvy shaped waves, a stuffed owl, reams of poster size paper for a printer we recycled, old hanging lamps we never installed from 20 years ago, and other odd materials with an emphasis on “odd”.

I’m still in the midst of sweeping and cleaning the floor of this closet and the top shelf. There is still a scent of musty age in this room. I go into the room and survey what I have done so far and start to feel good about getting rid of unwanted things then I see where I’m placing things I have decided to keep: a red electric guitar and small amp, an American flag beautifully folded in a special box given to us at my Dad’s funeral, old framed pictures of my grandparents and my husband’s great grandparents, an antique mirror and a church picture plate from Murdo before they tore down the church, wader boots because you never know when the urge to go flyfishing might hit. Shucks, I’m still keeping a lot. The smell is getting to me. There’s more but I’m midway through cleaning this first closet and have two more closets to go and an entry closet which I might deny I own. I congratulate myself on getting half a closet cleaned.

I’m getting a bit hungry especially since I have worked hard on half a closet partially organizing it. I just made two loaves of homemade bread, (they smell luscious), plus I bought great Irish butter from Costcocoa (you’ve probably spent a few hundred dollars there for huge amounts of stuff you can’t possibly eat nor use in this decade but it’s so cheap!) Out to the kitchen. Even if I never get to declutter another room, closet or cupboard, I’m never throwing away any food, especially butter. Butter is not clutter. I’ve discovered if I keep the doors closed to the bedrooms and the cupboards and closets, no one will notice any tiny bit of clutter. Where can you reduce clutter in your life? I’ll stay in the kitchen while you come up with your own answer. I’m done for today.

Those 70ish Girls- Big Deal Bdays by Lav

A BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION FROM A FEW YEARS AGO WHEN I TURNED 36.

What makes you feel nostalgic?

Birthdays make me feel nostalgic and sorta jealous. Let me explain.

My cousin has the best birthday celebrations. Her bday is today but she’s been partying for many days previous to it. She sent a picture of herself with her cute haircut dyed gray and wearing a bright red blouse, and a bright smile, grinning from ear to ear with 12 friends and family members eating out together. Her husband was wearing a button down long sleeve shirt and I barely recognized him because most often he’s in a t-shirt, with suspenders and Bermuda shorts. They were seated at one long table. One couple came all the way from Indiana and the husband was all dressed up in a dress shirt, going business casual with a tie and all. (I’ve often wondered why they call it “business casual”. If you mean you’re seriously doing “business,”then dress for success like you mean business. Don’t go all casual. I would probably come in my pj’s since that’s my business casual outfit which I wear quite often. When I mean business, I go to sleep.) My cousin was seated at a place of honor with presents surrounding her. All the guests obviously adored her. It was a big deal bday. It all looked quite different from my bday.

For my birthday my husband took me out for dinner in the Monterey area at a restaurant by the beach. But I didn’t have a dozen people there. In fact, last bday he and I sat alone at a small table eating our appetizers: calimari and French fries, then we ordered some raviolis and sand dabs to share with drinks, even though things were kind of expensive. (Happy birthday!) I didn’t mention it was my bday to the host nor waiter. I don’t like them to draw attention by singing happy birthday to me, although I bet all twelve sang (probably off key) for my cousin’s bday dinner. I also did not get a birthday dessert. (My cousin probably got an entire NY cheesecake.)

We had paid earlier for parking at the automatic parking machine in the restaurant lot, but had trouble entering our car license info. We thought we were all set to drive home, after paying for dinner and leaving a tip, but on the windshield of our car was a parking ticket, neatly wrapped up in a white envelope. (Happy birthday!) We had entered the license plate number incorrectly. This ticket would cost us almost as much as the dinner had, but we could contest it with a copy of the receipt, day and time we had parked and a letter to the parking company authorities, signed and dated within 60 days. (Happy birthday!)

I guess birthdays make me feel nostalgic because as a child my parents threw some fun parties for me and all the grandparents and aunts, uncles and cousins came not to mention another separate party just for my neighbor hood friends and school classmates. It was a big deal as a child. Back in those days, people got dressed up. My relatives looked stylish for our family gathering and at my kids’ party, we little girls wore dresses, with patent leather shoes and anklets (fancy lace bordered socks).

I really need to grow up. No more kiddy parties, right? Birthdays are fun in our 70’s but we do not need a big fuss over them like when we were kids, do we? I’m happy my cousin had people she loves around her for her birthday. She deserves to have fun. Hopefully no one got a parking ticket, dear Cuz. Oh, and if you got my gift and bday card in your mailbox recently, it might not fit so just return it to me. I can take it back and get a refund. I’m going to probably need it anyway to help pay for the ticket.

Thanks, sweet Cuz, and happy big deal birthday. To me, you are a big deal.

WHY ARE WE HANGING OUT WITH THAT CHEF GUY?

Maybe it’s his birthday.

Those 70ish girls…On The Road Again and Again

Ninny joined us again on the road to Portland but first Ninny was seen here with a big scary friend.

Is that bear following me?

Beautiful Oregon skies above

A dusting of snow on the treetops

We finally made it to Portland after a couple stops. We saw this lovely artwork in Sutherlin at a coffee shop along the way.

Now we will be babysitting for a few days and eating lots of good food at my family’s house and at our hotel, so we better get some sleep because that 20 month old little guy will keep us hopping. Nighters to you all.