Those 70ish Girls…Aunt Tet

GREAT AUNT TET WAS GREAT by Mary McNinch and Valerie Halla

Mary and I decided to ask our cousins what they remember about one of our Grandpa Sanderson’s sisters who saw most of us 13 cousins grow up. We are writing about her today because we have overlooked her while we have covered many family members, neglecting to offer dear memories of her.

We asked several cousins to tell us what they recall about “Aunt Tet” and will include their thoughts along with our own recollections of her.

Cousins Bobby, Suanne, Blake and Jeff H. met recently at the Martin Mason Hotel in Deadwood, South Dakota on July 9, 2024 and had these memories of Tet:

Great Aunt Tet was a lifelong loving younger sister of her brother, Maynard Evan Sanderson. She was a true, dedicated professional business partner and manager of the Sanderson General Store in Murdo for much of the time her brother and later his son, Jeff Sanderson, owned the store. She resided in the second story apartment above the store.

The involvement and support of various family members was truly recognized and was highly appreciated in the Sanderson family.

She was born in Burgess, Iowa in 1890. The town was unofficially known as Smithtown in Sharon Township.

She was one of twelve children fathered by Frank Sanderson. His first wife was Ella Current Sanderson. Their first two children, Mabel and Eben, died of a highly contagious disease prior to the birth of Maynard Evan Sanderson in June 1886. Frank had four children by his second wife. He died tragically in 1918.

Aunt Tet never owned nor operated a motorized vehicle. She was thought to have been a teacher in her early years with two years of advanced schooling in Iowa. She never drank nor smoked nor swore. Our cousins that day during their mini-reunion remembered her to be very pleasant and professional.

When the out-of-town relatives visited South Dakota, they weren’t accustomed to the severe Great Plains direct sunlight, Aunt Tet was quick to assure them that we all knew where to find wide-brimmed hats to protect from sunburn. The SANDERSON cousins concluded that day that, “Our dermatologists are still smiling on their way to the bank.”

COUSIN ANDREA’S THOUGHTS:

Cousin Andrea emailed her recollections to me of Aunt Tet in June of this year. She wrote:

When I think back on Aunt Tet, I remember her making caramel apples for Halloween. She would hang them on a rope clothesline with clothespins, just off the kitchen and they looked delicious.

She loved sports and watched the games at Grandpa and Grandma’s house on Sunday afternoon. She would ride down to their house after church and have Sunday noon meal. Then she usually walked back home as she enjoyed the exercise uphill to her apartment on Main Street.

I don’t remember her being vocal about things, rather she was interested and thoughtful.

MY MEMORY OF AUNT TET:

During our summer visits to Murdo and living there for my 7-8th grade years in school, I remember seeing Aunt Tet in her apartment hallway going in and out of the bathroom because during those two years, we lived in the front apartment above Sanderson Store while she lived across in the back apartment. We shared the one bathroom. She kept to herself mostly. She seemed shy and of the personality where you didn’t speak until spoken to.

She was always at the store working or on a raised platform at a desk doing paperwork and it seemed quite dark and mysterious when I would see her there at the back of the old store, bent over heavy account books or maybe writing something.

She wore sensible print shirtwaist dresses with narrow belts, and practical heavy shoes, and she had short gray hair and old fashioned glasses. She wasn’t slim nor heavy but solidly built. She would smile at 12-13 year-old me and make pleasant small talk. My mom made extra dinner for her and I took it over to Aunt Tet- homemade chicken pot pie or ham and bean soup or fried chicken with mashed potatoes. Sometimes even pie, fantastic, scrumptious home baked fruit pies, or tapioca pudding.

My mom, named after Tet’s own mother, and everyone in our family and Murdo respected and liked her. One guy named Tuffy would come in for a banana or a snack from his shift at the auto museum. He had no teeth and ate soft foods, and he would tease her calling her an “old maid”. She would snap back, “ Old bachelor!” Or maybe she would shorten it to “old batch”. My Dad, who also worked at the store for two years, laughed at that.

AUNT TET WITH HER MOTHER, BROTHERS AND SISTERS WITH TWO OF THEIR SPOUSES. TET IS SECOND FROM THE LEFT.

It was sad when Sanderson Store had to close. Aunt Tet decided to move back to her home town in Iowa to live near her relatives. She adored her brother Sandy who lived in Iowa. In 1971 my new husband and I honeymooned across country and stopped to stay with her overnight. She was a gracious kind person and took us the next morning to her sister’s, my Great Aunt Melitha’s house, for a large hot breakfast Iowa style. We drove off the next morning after our goodbyes and I wrote her letters for many years but never saw her again. She passed away in the later 1970’s close by to where she had been born.

VALERIE, HUSBAND KEN AND AUNT TET- WEARING A LIGHT ROBE- UNDER LOVELY OLD TREES IN A SMALL TOWN IN IOWA IN THE SUMMER 1971.

MEMORIES FROM BILLY FRANCIS:

I worked with Aunt Tet for four summers in Sandersons Store.  The first thing we did when we got to work was to discuss the baseball games we had listened to (Aunt Tet – Kansas City, Bill – St Louis Cardinals).  She and I were huge baseball fans!  Aunt Tet was also a fan of Murdo sports.  She went to every basketball (home game) and most of the road games if she could get a ride.

She was the bookkeeper for grandpa Sanderson and later Uncle Jeff until he closed the store.  

Aunt Tet took the last lunch hour because she didn’t want to miss the kids when they stopped off for their penny candy on their way back to school from lunch.  She knew all of the kids by name!

Aunt Tet was my best friend.  She was the first person I visited when I came home from college.  I truly loved that lady!

Aunt Tet never married. She was an amazing part of our family and greatly loved by family and the people of Murdo.

A big thank you to all our cousins who contributed to memories of Great Aunt Tet. Let us know if you have anything to add, you who were fortunate to have known her.

Those 70ish girls…A story to tell, part 8

Changes to come…

I could understand Aunt Marti’s desire to know what happened to Holly and her mother, June. There were several crayon written pages with different made-up stories about dogs and kitties and several child-like drawings of houses with trees and billowing clouds. All of her pictures had a bright yellow sun shining down from the corner of the paper. Aunt Marti had grown to love the little girl she had never met and wanted to learn more about the family that had occupied this house so many years ago.

Aunt Marti did not have knowledge of the internet, and my guess was that it didn’t occurr to her that someone could do a search online and find out more about the family. I hoped there would be enough information in the lock box and chest to be able to do an adequate search to find out what happened to Holly and her mother. I didn’t have the first names of the grandparents, but I knew their last name was probably Reading since Holly’s mother was married to their son, and their last name was Reading. Holly said she was moving from the house. The date was 1923. Did the grandparents move, too? Aunt Marti had said the house had been vacant for 20 years prior to her purchasing it.

I kept digging through the papers and also found a photobook in the chest.

“Mr. B.. Oh my… where did you find that?” It was a handmade sock monkey.

*********************

“But Mommy, I don’t want to move. I don’t want to leave Grandpa and Nana. I love our house. Why do we have to go?”

Dear, sweet, Holly. This will be an exciting time for us.

This is not WWI, but it’s really good.

Those 70ish girls…A story to tell..part 4

The house…

I had just asked Aunt Marti if there was a reason, other than the 10 year age difference, that she and my mother had not been close.

“We will talk about all of that in good time,” Aunt Marti said. “But right now, I must tell you a few things concerning what will be taking place here this afternoon. My hope is that all of my nieces and nephews will be present at the meeting that Tara has been good enough to arrange. She was given some directions from my attorney. You will all be given a letter from me and you will be reading my will.”

“According to Tara, all of the cousins will be meeting here at 3:00 pm,” I offered.

“Perfect,” Aunt Marti said with a dramatic flash of her eyes.  I had seen that same expression many times on my mother’s face. As if reading my mind, Aunt Marti continued. “Your mother was different from the rest of us and sometimes the things she said and did didn’t set well with me. As the eldest of 4 children, I always felt as though the other girls’ behavior was more or less my responsibility.”

“Speaking from my own experience of living with Mom, I said. “I can understand your comment. Mom’s behavior sometimes pushed the envelope.” (I was secretly amused by my mother’s outlandish ways, but I didn’t share that with my aunt.)

“I must leave you now,” Aunt Marti said as she rose from the chair and picked up the tray with the tea and muffins. “But before I go, I need to tell you that I left you this property. I do hope you will give staying here in Pleasant Run a lot of thought before you get the news formerly at the meeting today. This house has a story to tell, and I believe it will tell you all of its secrets.”

“I don’t know what to say, Aunt Marti. Why would you give me your house?” I was surprised, to say the least.

“It’s all in the letter,” she answered. “And you can say goodbye.”

A story to tell..

Those 70ish girls…It happens

You can dance without music if a tune can’t be heard.

Some cry with no tears, which to me seems absurd.

Texas Wildflowers
Rylie Rue

You can smile without laughing. (I can’t deny it.)

You can’t laugh without smiling. (Did you just try it?)

If we’re living the dream, then there’s nothing to fear.

Long lazy days can become a short year.

You can close your eyes tightly and see a beautiful place.

Me with Nellie Belle

But can’t find your glasses when they’re right on your face.

You can age gracefully or chase after youth.

You can never do both. I’m telling the truth.

Friends are there for the good times, but you know they care,

When you’re going through bad times and you feel covered in prayer.

I want to wish an amazing lady and wonderful friend a very happy birthday.

Pat Davis

 

Those 70ish girls…Aloha and Mahalo and the Hike to Hell and Back by Valerie Halla.

The steep hike goes up then up, then down then down. It goes across giant boulders blocking your steps. You climb and then you slip on the red volcanic dirt now turned into mud from recent rains. You slip, you slide, you glide, you jump, you cuss like a guy who just stepped in dog poop, only much worse.

On our recent trip to Kauai, my sons wanted to get in a couple hikes. They are used to hiking and 30 years younger than me. So being in Hawaii on vacation, naturally I hiked with them, or rather in the rear following them the best I could.

We started in the late morning checking in with rangers since had reservations for the day. We climbed up steep winding muddy, rocky, high dirt steps from the beginning. I was cool. I wasn’t sweaty. I was smiling. I was confident I could do it until about ten minutes into the hike. I was hot. I was sweaty. I was frowning. I was panicking. I was praying I could do the two miles above the Pacific Ocean with lush jungle like foliage and Gorgeous views constantly meeting our view below.

I tried to keep up with my sons. One of their girlfriends went on ahead and met us when we reached the remote and dramatic beach with its huge waves breaking right in front of us, boulders blocking the trail to your final view. The gf told us she was walking back and that this hike was too long. She would meet us back at the house.

Getting to the beach took us on a strenuous adventure. When you hiked two miles in two hours, climbed over boulders as big as your trash cans back home, and swore you couldn’t walk another step, you were there, finally, at the edge where land met violent surf. It took your breath away, pounding surf in front of you, thick jungle behind you and a river flowing down the mountain below you into the ever powerful ocean. My sons made sure I was comfy, sitting on a boulder as comfy as a cement sidewalk while they hiked four more miles up to the falls. I ate my lunch and drank a couple gallons of beer. Just kidding. I drank a water bottle of water. My clothes were wet with sweat as well as my hair which hung in spaghetti style strings all over my head.

This beach was below us until the evil hike took us there where we wanted to go, or so we thought.

I was thankful to have reached a place to rest. I tried not to think about the hike back down to the parking lot.

Could I even make it back the way we had come? No, I couldn’t make it. Yes, you can. No, my body feels like a bunch of rags that have been used to wipe up the floor, all wet and soggy and limp, and dirty.

The wind hit the bushes, trees and grass in a flash as a red rescue helicopter flew in overhead from the ocean side up to the rocks above me where a lady lay sprawled out over the rocks, a man there comforting her. The helicopter kept circling over the tight spot about fifty feet up from where I was resting and soaking my feet. Everyone who had hiked there was staring at the couple as the helicopter let down a man on a cable in special gear with a bag. He began wrapping the lady’s ankle with white tape and talking to her. I could see his helmet nodding. The red helicopter stayed aloft blowing the tree branches and leaves in a frenzy. He eventually got her into a harness and held onto her and this cable and was whisked away by the brave rescue workers.

I was shocked at this rescue that had happened right before me. How could I complain about being tired from a two hour hike when this lady had gone through much more? I began counting my blessings that I wasn’t that poor woman who had been so badly injured that a helicopter had been sent out to this remote area. I was lucky.

To be continued…

Those 70ish girls…MHS/JCHS Memories, pt 5

Karen Lindquist, ’77

We were fortunate to be able to vote to have an 8th Grade Graduation Ceremony or a class swimming party at the White River, we all chose the swimming party.  Only in MURDO could my Mom and Dad load up a bunch of kids in the back of our pickup and drive to the White River along with more kids in with our Teacher Mr. Daum. It was a lot of fun. Times have changed. 

One memory of Homecoming was Mr McKernan had Rattlesnake as an option at the Concession  Stand. 

One day as Juniors, we were to order the supplies for Prom decorations, one of our classmates was home sick and she had the catalogs to pick out the items.  I told my teacher I needed to drive to her house to get the catalogs.  Teacher said fine.  By the time I reached my car outside of the High School, there were 6 or 7 classmates who jumped in my car to go along.  Guess who we met on the road on the way back to High School, our Superintendent, Mr. Donahue.  When we ran to the top of the stairs at High School Mr. Applebee was standing there directing us all to go straight to his office. 


Don’t forget the Rompers the girls had to wear for P.E.  For some reason they were red and Mr. Thune handed them out at the beginning of the year.  I had to find a picture from the 40’s and 50’s online to remind you.

All and all I love my classmates and all the fun and mischief we got into!    Thanks for all the memories and I hope to see you all at the All Class Reunion this summer! 

Those 70ish girls…MHS/JCHS Memories…pt 3 A Tribute to Coach Applebee.

Jim Anderson ’63

Coach Applebee arrived in Murdo my senior year in the fall of 1962.  I did not have him in class as a teacher, but I got well acquainted with him on the football field, the basketball court and on our square cornered track around the football field, located just south of the old high school. 

The Coyotes had graduated an outstanding senior class that spring—conference football champs, sixth place in the State Basketball Tourney in Sioux Falls, BUT Murdo had not medaled in the State Track Meet since 1957. That spring, Ken Poppe, and believe it or not, Jerald Applebee from Bonesteel, placed in the high jump and Duane Brooks, Ken Poppe, Doyle Elwell, and Mike Cressy placed 4th in the medley relay.

I went out for football when I finally got up to 100 lbs my junior year.  I was about 135 lbs my senior year, so I did not have a fun time getting knocked around by the heavyweights.  We went 4-4 from the information I have in my annual.  I was the 6th/7th man on the basketball team my senior year, did not see a lot of action but we were several games over .500 for the season.  But come spring, I was looking forward to the track season.  I had above average speed, good legs, and had qualified for the State Track Meet (along with several others) the year before ( held at Watertown, where all of the first day events were canceled due to rain and all events were finals the following day) —but no one came home with a medal.

From day one of the 1963 track season that spring we knew that Coach Applebee was determined to get us in shape if we did not die or quit the team first. Where he came up with those torture-conditioning drills, we were not sure, but practice was completely different from the year before under coach John Pierson.  None of us had ever been worked that hard before. There was a lot of talk of quitting!!

And then there was the matter of Roger Strait, probably the best all around athlete at MHS.  As a senior, he had been caught drinking beer at the State BB tourney earlier that spring.  The punishment for this infraction of the rules—only Superintendent Madigan, coach Applebee, and maybe the school board knew for sure—the rest of us were in the dark.  Finally, rather that ruin the track season for everyone, it was decided that Rodger would sit out the first couple of weeks before joining the team. It appeared the season had been salvaged if we could survive practice!

There were not many of us left on the track team come regional meet time at Hot Springs.  Many of those who thought about quitting followed through- to end the agony/hurt/torture inflicted at practice.

Those of us that survived were rewarded by qualifying in several events at the State Track Meet to be held in Mitchell.  I recall that our track ( if you could call it that) was mud the week before the state meet, so we played volleyball to keep limbered up—we were relaxed and ready for the cinder track at Mitchell.

The five of us (Jim Anderson, Roger Strait, Ron Tedrow, Bob Brost, Jim Bares) placed 3rd in the Mile and Medley relays and Bob Brost placed 5th in the 180 low hurdles—and this was when there were just two classes.                                              

It is a wonder what a small piece of metal will do for your self esteem.  Coach Applebee achieved what he set out to do.  The medals were the minor part of the plan.  The self confidence instilled in all of us that spring— finding out what we were made of—putting some steel in our legs, fire in our belly and heart, sticking with a tough–go–until–the–end, we carried for the rest of our lives.  I knew that when the going got tough in army basic training, in Viet Nam, in dental school, in life, I could reach back for that toughness Coach Applebee gave us in the spring of 1963.                                     

 THANKS COACH

Coach Applebee coaching a basketball game…

Those 70ish girls…MHS/JCHS Memories, pt 4

Jim Anderson ’63

My older brother had to stay home with either the mumps or yellow jaundice, so I was able to attend Murdo’s first game of the 1954 state tourney held in the Aberdeen Civic Center.  I can still recall a couple of          “sleeper plays” that Provo used late in the game to ice the win.  Did they allow smoking in the arena in those days?  It seemed very hazy inside that building as father and I watched the game.

 Gregg J. Brunskill ’59 Glorious Mud

I enjoyed Mrs Evelyn Kuhrt’s world history and some of the classics of English literature.  Mrs Kuhrt had a conniption in front of the principal’s office because she wanted boys to take typing instruction (normally only girls took typing).  I benefited from this conniption and decades later I was grateful to be able to touch type on computer keyboards (which were not even invented then). 

 Paul Anderson ’32 AS I REMEMBER IT

The superintendent my first two years (1928-30) was Mr Janda—6’2” and 300 pounds, at least.  No one argued with him at all.  He taught 4 classes of mathematics and coached all athletic teams besides his superintendent work.  I sang in the glee club and was out for basketball all four years.  I got to go clear to Wood with the second team once.  I also went out for football my senior year when I had grown to 110 pounds!  I got to go to Winner to run the chain, too.

 Jim Anderson ’63

How many recall hearing the explosion at the Thune house over noon one school day?  Someone blew the stuffing out of a foot stool.  Was it a .20 gauge or a 12 gauge?  Billy Sorensen did the same thing to a wall at his house—a .20 gauge I think. 

Those 70ish girls…MHS/JCHS Memories, pt 6

Marvin Niedan ’62

My first eight years was at Pershing School, 23 miles west of Murdo.  After registering for High School, Coach Swede (John Pierson) looked at me         ( 5’8” and 210 lbs) and said “of course, you plan on playing football?”  I said  “ I don’t  know anything about football, but I will think about it.” The first day of school I ended up faking my dad’s name to the physical slip and went out for practice.  First game of the year Chris Anderson and I dressed for the game, and Kim Graham got hurt and Coach Swede told me to go in and just “plug the hole.” I believe it was the 2ed day of school and we were excused for noon and we were going up the stairs from the science room and one of the students turned around and took a swing at me.  I ducked and took him down.  We both were sent to Superintendent Gordon Diedtrich’s office.  Luckily, there were witnesses and the other student did not get off that lucky.  Superintendent  Diedtrich’s brother, Harvey, had military obligations and started teaching a few days late.  The first day Mr. Harvey Diedtrich was there, cousin Gordon Niedan and I were sitting next to each other in the science room.  Harvey Diedtrich came into the room at the same time Gordon and I were sitting down. I kicked my right leg back outside the desk and it pushed Gordon’s desk far enough that he ended up on the floor.  Harvey had me up in his brother’s office before he even introduced himself.  Luckily, superintendent Diedtrich believed me after he had cousin Gordon up who helped me get out of that one.  Ironically, five years later, Dr . Gordon Diedtrich was the head of the education department at Northern State and was my advisor through my senior year. He convinced me to pursue my MA and Doctorate in School Administration at USD.

Ralph Thomas ’67

And Puff, you were gone.

Near the end of the school year in 1964, the junior class spokesman, Dave Beckwith spoke to the open assembly hall of all four grades (that was the last year all four grades could be addressed from on or near the steps going up into the superintendent’s office.  In the summer of 1964 the school was remodeled into homes rooms.)  Anyway, Dave started with a heart wrenching soliloquy about how the senior class was special and will hold a cherished spot in all our hearts. Dave kept going through his tears and said the junior class wanted to present the senior class with a special gift he hoped they all would cherish.  On cue, Dave’s assistants revealed the green dimpled head of Puff the Magic Dragon, the junior class’s winning float entry from the previous fall.  The senior men immediately rushed Puff’s head, took it outside, and stomped it into smithereens.  And Puff you were gone!   

Jim Anderson ’63

Under the bucket and out cold.

During basketball practice, while shooting lay-ups at the west end of the auditorium (winter of 1961) I accidentally slipped and hit my head on something.  I came to feeling a wet cloth on my forehead and face while lying on the floor under the basket.  Coach Pierson had Kip Kinsley borrow Mrs. Khurt’s car to take me uptown to see Dr. Murphy.  “How many fingers do you see Jimmy?”  I answered correctly, sat out a day of practice and had no complications.   There are some people however, that think there have been lingering effects! 

 

 Linda Anderson Nill ’68

I remember being at a rehearsal for something at school and we were waiting for instructions in the auditorium.  Steve Parish sat down at the piano and started pounding out ragtime or boogy-woogy!  I was in awe and still am!

Those 70ish girls…MHS/JCHS Memories…pt 2

Gregg J. Brunskill ‘ 59 from Glorious Mud.

“My grandparents bought me a new Olds Raphael Mendez trumpet, which was easier to play than my uncle’s old Silver Conn horn.”  I helped to form a school jazz band ( The Hungry Seven) so we could play for local dances in our regional small towns.  I also played Taps with the local VFW Riflemen and Color Guard at dozens of small town lonely cemeteries on Memorial Day.” 

Paul Anderson ’32 from As I Remember It.

In 1928 not very many farmer boys went to high school, but my folks always insisted that we were all to go on to school.  I really don’t know why they decided to send us boys to Murdo, instead of Draper but they did.  I was the smallest and undoubtedly the most frightened boy in Murdo that eventful fall day.  Pa had made arrangements for Bryan Schaeffer who ran Francis-Schaeffer Hardware store, for me to work for my room and board.  My big sisters had convinced me that I had to take my books home every night to study.  I did survive, however, and by the end of the week had made many new friends and hardly wanted to go home.

 Jim Anderson ’63

I can still see Harvey Deidtrich standing in front of his math, physics/chemistry classes playing his imaginary violin when we complained about homework.  And who was it that put the copy of PLAYBOY in the study hall magazine rack after they had ripped the cover off? 

Katherine Prahl Patterson ’56

Evelyn Kuhrt was our class advisor ( class of ’56).  When we built a float we worked all week on it.  We worked on the float in Kuhrt’s garage.  One night 2 or 3 boys went into the house and raided the refrigerator.  The class was in trouble the next day as they had eaten Bill’s lunch. and the Kuhrt’s could not go to the store to replace the ingredients for the lunch.

Those 70ish girls…MHS – JCHS Memories, pt 1

I will be publishing some  stories submitted by Murdo High School and Jones County High School alumni in anticipation of the All School Reunion to be held July 17-19.

Gregg Brunskill ’59

One of the traditions in the Murdo High School is that the juniors would decorate the school gymnasium for the senior prom dance in the spring. My class decided to decorate the gym in a jungle theme. I borrowed my father’s cattle truck and two of my classmates came with me down to the floodplains of the White River where we cut down two dozen 10-12 m high cotton wood trees, maybe 20-30 cm in base diameter. We were hauling them to town but we were intercepted by the town sheriff, Ben Arndt in his Sheriff car with sirens and flashing lights on top. Apparently we didn’t have the correct red reflectors or flags on the trees sticking out the back of the truck box. We told Ben why we were doing this. He nodded and grinned and got a big red flag out of his car trunk, tied it on the longest tree and then led us back to the school gymnasium with his sheriff car flashing lights.

Linda Anderson Nill ’68

In 1968 our senior class had a practice/student teacher for English class- Mr. Sprigler. We were winding down our final year in high school so when he asked a question, no one answered. He got very angry, upset and finally used the d**n word. His eyes got huge and he left the room. I wonder if he ever became a teacher.

Doug Tedrow ’64

In the fall of 1961 the class of 1964 as sophomores, and perhaps other classes as well, were mercilessly ill behaved towards the English teacher, whose name I have forgotten and who was nearing retirement age. The teacher resigned mid-year and was replaced by Miss Herzog for the second half of the year. In the fall of 1962 Miss Walbrecht arrived and the teacher grapevine had done its work by that time. During the first class of the fall, Miss Walbrecht delivered a 50-minute disciplinary lecture and laid down the law. Calvin Blom walked out of the room with me and said, “I came out of there feeling a little weak.” Other than that, we thought she was pretty cool as she arrived driving a two-tone yellow and white 1957 Chevrolet four door sedan. Miss Walbrecht later to become Mrs. Peter’s after marrying Howard Peters who operated the Sinclair station, finished the rest of her career at MHS/JCHS. Many years later while visiting my parents I met her in the Super Value and told her she was the best English teacher I ever had.

Mrs. Peters

Those 70ish Girls – Aloha and Mahalo – Pt. 2 – By Valerie Halla

Someone said that I was bragging about being in balmy sunny Hawaii, while many people are stuck in the snow, lots of it, and frigid weather in the States. That’s true. I’m bragging, boasting and laughing about your plight. It is flippin’ cold, windy and wintry in many areas of the country. I’m really not bragging. I feel sorry- no, I don’t on second thought. I’m having too much fun in Kauai. It is, after all Paradise,

A beach across the street. Come on, let’s walk to it.

Come with me, let’s imagine that we are there. Come out onto the lanai. It’s early morning. Oops, first get your sandals on or your flip flops and grab your morning tea – or coffee or – Mai tai. Slide the screen door open. It’s okay to wear what you had on yesterday or even wear pjs. Step down onto the carpets outside and sit on one of the comfy chairs. Set your drink down.

Do you feel it, that warm air? That almost heavy tropical breath of fresh atmosphere? Then you start to relax even though you just slept solidly like a baby.

It’s paradise. It’s beyond description. It’s the island life. Look out there beyond the railing of the deck.

A little green gecko crawls on the plant below and you look out at the lush green yard and up to the mountain and waterfall beyond.

A picture cannot picture it like the real image.

Oops- this picture is out of order. It’s not in our backyard but it is nearby in a park for which you need reservations. We will get to that in Part 3.

This house is at the end of the highway almost and across the highway is the beach.

It’s called sand, different than snow.

This is another beach farther away. But you get the idea.

This was taken on our first morning as we had arrived in the dark the night before. We were in awe. The beach and ocean kinda work their magic on your psyche… if you let it.

Makes you want to just stare and take time to take it all in.

I’m unable to find words. If I’m bragging, then that’s what happens when you fall under the spell of Hawaii. I won’t apologize. This island in particular was mesmerizing. It’s called The Garden Island for a reason.

Aloha til next time.

Those 70ish Girls – Aloha and Mahalo PART 1 – by Valerie Halla

Paradise out our backyard. The lanai was our best friend every day.

After losing my husband this spring and trying to write the next chapter in my life, I decided to travel more. For my first Christmas without him in 53 years, I planned a trip to Kauai in Hawaii after discussing it through several texts with my three adult kids. The preface to my story wrote itself slowly, but the story got off the ground eventually and we were on our way.

Everyone at Li’hue Airport as well as on the plane said Aloha and Mahalo over and over til I internalized the meanings of those two words: Hello and thank you.

Jeep rental – alias magic carpet – with Matt driving and Morgan navigating.

Matt and Morgan here in the front seat of our rented jeep with me and Matt’s girlfriend in the back seat. We were driving away from the airport ready to take on 10 days of island life, sunshine, beaches, flip flops, shorts and swimsuits. Our story was just beginning.

We drove an hour on a narrow road with a rainstorm following us to the end of the highway. Morgan saw the address and gate to our destination.

We awoke to paradise the next morning on Kauai.

Our first day at our house. My oldest son checking out the waterfall up on the mountain. He said he had looked forward to this trip for months. I can see why.

The yard at our Airbnb had lush plants, trees, mountains and chickens. Even a stray donkey came by.

Wild donkeys come and go. Even a cow and calf visited.

We were here first. Mooove on out!

Back in the planning stages months ago, I had told my three kids that I’d pay for the Airbnb rental and they would have to pay for their flights. We would share food expenses. My daughter and her young family couldn’t come. My two sons came with one girlfriend and we amazingly met on December 17 at Lih’ue Airport in Kauai. That in itself was a major accomplishment because everyone lives in different cities in CA plus everyone is busy at this time of year.

You can maybe guess what the first place was where we stopped. Costco? No first we rented a Jeep Wrangler. So cute and shiny new. Then we went to scenic Costco.

We stopped to shop after our long flights to Hawaii and bought something to eat and drink at Costco, not really into the island vibe yet. We bought a lot since four adults buy what they want and what they’re used to eating in the States.

One son flew from San Francisco, one son and his girlfriend flew from Los Angeles and I flew in from San Jose. Then we were off down the highway which traces the North shore of the Pacific Ocean and followed GPS all the way. The clouds opened up to greet us with a downpour and my oldest son did a great job driving with his brother navigating on a narrow highway where we searched for our Airbnb house amongst the jungle like growth and gorgeous trees. Now this was a true adventure.