Those 70ish girls…The stock I came from

By Valerie Halla

Aunt Helen:

When I was a little girl, we visited Aunt Helen and Uncle Bob and their four kids in Michigan just once. We only saw them once in a while because we lived in Pennsylvania pretty far from their house, and had only been to Murdo, South Dakota for a few SANDERSON family reunions together during the summer. But after seeing Aunt Helen a few times and noticing how pretty she was, I decided to name my new dark haired doll Helen in her honor. To me that was the perfect name.

Me with my Mom and the doll I named after my beautiful Aunt Helen


Aunt Helen was the fourth child born to Grandma and Grandpa SANDERSON and the last to be born before the family moved to a little log cabin on Horse Creek about 7 miles outside of Murdo. Her brother Jeff’s birth had been difficult so her dad, my Grandpa, drove his wife a very long distance in a wagon/carriage to Mitchell Hospital when the time came. Helen was named Mary Helen but was called Helen so as not to be confused having her mother’s first name.

Helen was the baby of the family when this picture was taken with brothers Wayne and Jeff, and sister, Ella.

It was a tough life on the farm there. Even though the family had a Model A, Grandpa later bought a Model T which made the two miles on dirt roads then the 5 miles on gravel roads easier. Aunt Helen later wrote that she was always happy growing up even in tough times. She dressed the farm kittens like her babies and loved playing house, even though she had chores and worked hard as did the entire family. The kids road a horse three miles to school and did not like leaving their horse all day in the barn at school with no food. There were 12 students in the country school in eight grades.

The Osborn family in later years

The Osborn family also attended school with the SANDERSONS and only had bread with cocoa junk on their bread sandwiches. That was a mixture of sugar, cocoa and whole milk which would soak into the homemade bread. The Osborn family was poor. They had 13 children. Helen felt lucky to have sardine sandwiches at school for lunch. A tin of sardines cost 4 cents and she recalled that some were canned in mustard or tomato sauce and were tasty.

The Sanderson sisters…from left, Helen, Elna, Ella, and Loretta

Helen recalls that her Dad, M.E. SANDERSON was strict. If their Mom, Mary, couldn’t handle the kids, she would say in a low voice, “I will have to tell your Dad.” One time M.E. put her on top of a tall cupboard to discipline Helen. Or to show the other kids who was boss.

Helen was a dark haired, slim girl in high school. Later she went to business school out in Rapid City after my Mom, Ella, gave her the money to attend. She eventually met her future husband Bob who graduated from School of Mines and he got a job in Michigan with the auto manufacturer, Chevrolet. They left the day after getting married and drove with another couple all the way to Michigan from South Dakota. They raised their four children there in Michigan. One summer my parents bought a car from Bob and Helen. The two families met in Murdo so my parents could drive it home later. They were so proud to have gotten a relatively new car from Bob and Helen.

Later in life, when Bob had passed away, Helen went to live near a daughter in South Dakota once again. She regularly wrote beautiful letters to her brothers and sisters with a neat flowing cursive handwriting. I remember my mother read those letters over and over and kept many of them. Aunt Helen was always happy as long as the sun shone. And she was always beautiful inside and out.

Uncle Bob Haverberg around the time he and Aunt Helen were married

From Left: The ever stylish sisters, Helen, Ella, and Loretta

Those 70ish girls…Ralph Thomas guest writer

Murdo High School and reunion stories by Ralph Thomas, Class of 1967

Ralph Thomas


Senior Class Play

One spring morning in 1964 Gloria Thomas woke up with hundreds of red bumps all over her body.  Her Mom Ethel said you have the measles and you can’t go to school.

Gloria replied but I have to go the Senior Class Play is today and I’m vital.  Ethel prevailed, Gloria stayed home.

Gloria Thomas

Mrs. Peters (the play director) was notified.  She immediately went into hiding for 3 hours assuming the understudy’s role.  She performed admirably in the matinee and evening roles and saved the play with an A+ performance.

When Gloria returned to school the next week several classmates (names redacted) jokingly accused her of trying to sabotage the Senior Class Play!

Mrs. Peters

Near the end of the school year in 1964, the Junior Class spokesman Dave Beckwith spoke to the open assembly hall of all 4 grades.  (That was the last year all 4 grades could be addressed from on or near the steps going up into the superintendents office.  In the summer of 1964 the school was remodeled into home rooms.)

Anyway Dave started with a heart wrenching soliloquy about how the Senior Class was special and will hold a cherished spot in all our hearts.

Dave Beckwith

Through Dave’s tears he kept going and said the Junior Class wanted to present the Senior Class with a special gift he hoped they all would cherish.

On cue Dave’s assistants revealed the green dimpled head of Puff the Magic Dragon, the Junior Class’s winning float entry from the previous fall.

The Senior Men immediately rushed Puff’s head, took it outside, and stomped it into smithereens.   And Puff you were gone  .

Murdo High School

Jeff H. Sanderson liked to tell the story about going to the reunions for the Murdo High School and he saw Johnny Daum at one of those reunions probably in 2006.  Jeff H walked up to Johnny and said you look just as good as you did in high school, and Johnny Daum puffs his chest out with a big smile.  He felt so good.

And then Jeff H. sees Lyle Reynolds a few minutes later and he says wow Lyle you look even better than you did in high school (cause he did) and Johnny’s got this sad look creeping over his face….

So anyway, I saw Johnny Daum at Range Country Lodging at another reunion probably in 2011 and I say hi Johnny.  And he was sitting at this table with some woman, and I said, do you remember back 5 years ago Jeff H. said to you that you look just as good as you did in high school and you were all pumped up and thought that was great?  Then he saw Lyle Reynolds and said wow you look even better than you did in high school and it kind of made you disappointed?  And Johnny said, yeah Ralph I get it.

And then I said I remember you were such a good singer in high school, just fabulous, you made us proud.  And Johnny smiles.

Then I looked at that woman next to him and I said I thought this was your wife, but this is actually your sister right?  And I said wow she’s even a better singer than you (cause she was) And Johnny’s like OK Ralph that’s enough….

Those 70ish girls…The Grandfather Clock

Do you believe in Angels? There is a saying, “To those who believe, no explanation is necessary. To those who do not believe, no explanation is possible.”

The following is a true story.

Back in the 70’s Sherri Miller’s Mom and Dad bought a grandfather clock at an auction in Presho, SD where they lived. As it turned out, the clock belonged to someone who lived just a couple of blocks from them, so they ended up hand carrying it down the street to their house, where it still resides.

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The clock soon became Mr. Swinson’s pride and joy and he seldom let anyone else touch it. His beautiful clock had to be wound each week before the weights were all the way to the bottom. If they do get to the bottom, the clock can lock up and fixing it requires a clock repair expert. Sherri said that throughout the years, it has only locked up on them once. They had to take the non-working parts out, wrap them very carefully and haul them to Bridgwater, which is about 135 miles from Presho. A couple of weeks later, they had to drive back and pick them up. They never wanted to do that again, so Mr. Swinson was very careful to wind the clock on time each week.

The Grandfather clock has three weights..one in the middle, that controls the time, and two on each side that control the chimes. When Sherri’s Dad started slowing down, he finally decided to let her take over the task of winding the clock. When he became really sick last November and had to go to the hospital, winding the clock was not on Sherri’s mind. When she got back to Presho a few weeks later, the weights on the grandfather clock had reached the bottom and everything on the clock had stopped. She had to get back to Pierre, (SD), so she wasn’t able to do anything with it on that trip.

In late December, she decided to try winding it to see what happened. The clock timing actually started to work, which meant the middle weight was moving down like it should. After that, Sherri was careful to rewind the clock part weekly. The two weights on the outside however, did not move, which meant the clock did not chime on the quarter, half, or on the hour. Fearing he would get upset, Sherri decided not to share this with her Dad.

Several weeks after Mr. Swinson came home, Sherri was helping him to the bedroom and he stopped at the clock and asked, “Is the clock not working?” Sherri responded that it was and it was keeping perfect time. He didn’t say anything more about it until a few days before his passing, when he asked her again if the clock was working. He said he couldn’t hear it chime. This time she told him what had happened. Sherri said he remained calm and said, “If I were able and if I could get to it, I know I could fix it.” Sherri told him she knew he could too, but he couldn’t get to it and they were not going to worry about it now. No more was said.

Sherri and her sisters had tried to fix the chimes several times over the previous three months, but to no avail. Then a few days after her Dad died, the clock needed winding. After she wound it, the clock made a little chime. She was shocked, but thought maybe she had touched something when she pulled the weight up, that caused the sound. That happened around 7:35, so Sherri and her sister sat there watching it, and waited for 7:45 to get there. Sure enough, they heard a small chime. They waited for it to come to the hour of eight o’clock. They were so excited when they heard the “minute before” chime and then the count..8 dongs..one for each hour. Sherri and her sister listened to each chime of the grandfather clock in amazement. The clock has been working perfectly ever since.

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Pete Swinson with his daughters. He lived to see his 100th birthday, and was a man loved by all.

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In Italy – Part 6 – Doors

When you visit magical, marvelous, miraculous Italy, you can see architecture that was designed and built thousands of years ago. I do not understand the strategy behind making doors giant. Was it to allow huge equipment to get through, to show the rulers and royalty how great they were in their stature and nobility or they just didn’t cut entrances down to fit human sized bodies. Many were arched. All were majestic and beautiful. Here are a scant few I was fortunate enough to see on my trip to Venice, Florence and Rome.

A more modern take on entryways.

This is a doorway I think.

Oops- David is blocking the view of this door but I don’t mind.

I certainly hope you get to enjoy Italy someday if you haven’t already.

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Italian Food – Part 5 – VALERIE HALLA

At our group cooking class. So much fun.

The food in Italy is fresh, bursting with flavor and does not have all the additives and ingredients that American food has. Simply made and simply put: it’s delicious.

The eyes have it.

The Italians use olive oil and balsamic in cooking and it’s perfect. They use these sparingly. The caprese salads are all you need. meals are eaten slowly and enjoyed and savored. Wine is there, always there or a spritz.

Prosciutto is delicious thinly sliced type of ham.

Bruschetta is a common dish.

Wine or Cappuccino anyone?

Fettuccine and carbinero sauce with Parmesan.

Cooking class.

The pasta we all made with sauce added later. Super yummy.

Pizza and more pizza.

Pizzas which was unsliced all around with drinks. We got time to splinter off into small groups after walking tours.

Breakfast at the hotel in Rome.

Florence is known for their special tasty beef steak.

Iced cappuccino and buns with truffle spread at an outdoor cafe in Florence.

Bon appetit!

Those 70ish Girls – Part 4- When in Rome

By Valerie Halla

No Gladiators there any more.

Rome is a city impossible to describe therefore you just get on a plane and go. And then say, “Arrivederci.” This photo doesn’t show the lower sections of the Coliseum and naturally your first impression nor your emotions of first seeing it cannot be communicated. It’s overwhelmingly moving. The Roman Coliseum is 1,953 years old.

The history, the architecture, the remnants of a lost empire are there. If you think the United States is old, guess again. Italy was home to the Roman Empire. Much of that historical time lives within modern buildings and communities right alongside ancient structures be they crumbling or partially standing or dug up by archaeological digs, the past is living even in 2025.

I walked along the Roman Highway listening on my Whisper device to a knowledgeable guide telling the story of Ancient Rome and its inhabitants.

All roads lead to Rome.

These boulders were placed thousands of years ago and provided a pathway, a highway for merchants, farmers, craftsmen, soldiers and others to travel freely between destinations including tours of today.

Romans also built incredible structures for taking water from one area to another.

An ancient palace dome still hanging onto life.

Can you see the Roman Numerals above the arched entrance marking the area where you would be seated for the games or events at the Coliseum?

Animals from around the world were brought here to fight one another or humans. This showed the Emperor had vast powers from all over the world and could afford to bring exotic animals to Rome.

The Pantheon is 1,900 years old and was covered in marble at one time. The columns came by ship from Egypt.

Is your front door as big as the Pantheon’s?

I truly understand the statement, “Rome wasn’t built in a day.” It boggles the mind, the heart, the eyes and the energy level how this was all made and yet thousands of years later, it remains.

More later.

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In Italy Part 3 – by Valerie Halla

Florence was next on our tour with a comfy bus ride there. Outside was some beautiful scenery on our 4 hour tour as the director told us lots of facts and history as we went. Florence has a gorgeous Cathedral pictured here with an exterior of greens and pinks and marble that blows your eyes wide and challenges them to look at the old walls and imagine the interior before you even see it to take you like the old rock ‘n roll song says, “Take me higher, higher and higher”. Florence has beauty. Florence has food and buildings and art and bridges and mystique.

Florence is where ancient and modern meet and shake hands.

Florence has David. How did Michelangelo create statues like this without modern technology?

The Arno River is central part of Florence.

Sounds of the city.

Part of the Roman Aquaduct.

Motorbikes everywhere!

Iced cappuccinos and truffle filled buns in Florence.

Museum of Modern Art in a gorgeous old palace. And me trying to pose. Arches in architect are prevalent.

After a rough day seeing gorgeous sights and beautiful art work, the 26 people on the tour split off to eat dinner and drink Chianti.

Special steaks from special Florence cows on a special night out for dinner.

Wine, always the vino.

Next stop: Rome. All roads lead to Rome.

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In Italy – Part 2 by Valerie Halla

Venice, Italy is a city on the water, within the canals and surrounded by water. Its history is ancient and beautiful beyond words, beyond cultures and back so far in time it’s already into memories of trillions of generations.

We had, as I wrote already, a quaint Italian hotel which was an early mansion from the 1600’s yet modernized and updated yet still hanging around the past.

My gorgeous room with intricate bed headboard.

Bath with lovely tile.

Venice—

There are many little narrow streets like this that seem to close you into their arms then suddenly open into a spacious square with old churches, shops, sidewalk cafes with maybe just a few tables spilling out onto the cobblestones or a restaurant with many tables inviting people to stop for a pizza, pasta, wine or spritz.

Food and drink are everywhere and it all tastes better than you imagined.

My tour group splintered off as our tour director told us when to return to a meeting location in Venice and we went to get a bite to eat seeing this loyal dog sleeping with his leash ready outside a high end store. We all took pictures of this sweet dog. He touched our hearts.

This is just half our group saying bye to Venice and on the next day to Florence. I’m third on the left.