We’re still having a good time with Kip’s sister, Karlyce who lives in Greeley, CO. The weather has been almost as amazing as the food. Karlyce is still taking Kip down memory lane by fixing dinners their mother made. I get to go along for the eating.
Since I last reported, we’ve had fried trout with cole slaw, and hamburger gravy served over torn up slices of bread. This caused a little argument. Kip remembers his mother frying hamburgers, which they cut into pieces and tossed with the bread before pouring white gravy over the top. Karlyce, and as it turns out, Kip’s other 2 sisters remember their mom browning crumbled up hamburger and making the gravy with the crumbled hamburger in it. I’m probably not explaining this right, but I’m here to say it is great comfort food. We ate it with yummy sweet corn and sliced homegrown tomatoes.
Trout dinnerKarlyce’s friend, Dianna, joined us for the hamburger gravy dinnerAnother pic of trout dinner with fried potatoes and homemade slaw.
Yesterday, we took a beautiful drive up to Estes Park. Nellie and Rylie even got to go. Karlyce and I did a little shopping in several of the cute touristy stores before treating ourselves to a great lunch. I had an Elk burger, which was delicious, until I walked outside and saw several Elk basking in the sun. I felt bad.
Karlyce has treated us like real royaltyIt just looks cool, doesn’t it?
We usually eat breakfast out…
My breakfast Saturday at “Butter my Biscuit.”Kip and Karlyce had huevos rancheros this morningI had a breakfast burrito and a fried cheesecake pie with cherries for dessert…it was amazing!Kip made friends with a Bigfoot in Estes Park.
We have 2 more home-cooked meals to look forward to before we waddle to the reunion. Man, oh man, Karlyce is a great cook!
As my husband and I get older, we think about our birthdays. How should we celebrate? Will this be our last one? Will we get to celebrate with our family and friends? Should we do something special, because we don’t have many more chances to enjoy our time here on the planet?
I’m all for a big splurge. I want to go on a trip somewhere exotic or unique. Some place I’ve never been before. Who knows at my age if I will ever get to go on my dream trip? We usually go out for lunch or dinner at a snazzy restaurant or to eat our favorite cuisine to celebrate senior birthdays. This year I want to try something bigger and better and funner.
This year for my birthday, I told my husband I want to visit Charleston and Savannah to tour the historic homes, museums and Civil War sites. I’ve always wanted to go there. I went ahead and looked into arrangements for such a trip to celebrate being 70ish. My hygienist and friend of 25 years even gave me the name of her daughter’s great travel agency. I called and talked to a travel agent there who had me flying high on ideas and wondrous destinations in the South! He painted a visual canvas of fascinating places to see with stays at old remodeled 1850’s style inns and romantic southern foods at lavish intimate dinners overlooking lush gardens with trees covered in Spanish moss. I was enthralled. I was ready.
The tour trip was called Southern Charms but there was nothing charming about the cost of a week long trip to Charleston and Savannah in the fall. My heart and my hopes sunk. My husband said he didn’t want to go on any tours. He also said it’s too expensive. Maybe I will go alone. It costs half as much that way.
Then later as we discussed what else to do for my special birthday, one like no other, he may have been fooling around, just joking, which he does tongue in cheek quite successfully. I was cooking something at the stove. He said, “I’ll take you out to dinner for your birthday- first to Burger King then to Dairy Queen for dessert.”
I just stared at him a minute.
I hope he wasn’t too badly injured by the flying frying pan.
One of the things I love about RV life on the road is that every day is different. Even if you’re in one spot for a couple of weeks as we currently are, you experience new sights and scenes each day.
Kip’s breakfast appetizer was a gigantic sweet roll.After a hearty breakfast where I ran into this nice gentleman, we headed for Sheels, an amazing store in Loveland, COKarlyce with biscuits and gravy..yum
Yesterday, I went to lunch with my sister-in-law, Karlyce, and a group of her friends. After lunch, we went back to her beautiful little stone church for an hour of fellowship. Karlyce asked me to read a poem from my “Rhymes for all Times” book. I read, “On any Given Day,” which they seemed to enjoy.
Wednesday night, Karlyce prepared another nostalgic dinner that her mom made when the 4 kids were growing up. She made chicken and noodles served over mashed potatoes and a fresh fruit salad made with fruit and sour cream. It was all amazing. Kip and I brought lemon bars, which are something my mom used to make.
I would encourage you all to take the food walk down memory lane. It prompts a lot of fun conversations about growing up and family times.
Ready to dig into the chicken and noodles.I’m really enjoying the Rhubarb pie and crunch.
This weekend we plan to drive up to Estes Park. We used to go there a lot when we lived in Denver and Kip, and Karlyce’s mom lived in Loveland.
The weather continues to be gorgeous. Coming from Texas, where the heat has been relentless this summer, it’s a real game changer.
The following are pictures taken at the Sheels store. What a fun place. We bought a bunch of dog paraphernalia.
One day, while driving around, Kip and I made the sudden decision to become full-time RVers. Once we make a decision, especially an important one, we typically storm ahead and don’t look back.
I have to admit that after being sidetracked for 6 months due to Kip needing back surgery, I have had the occasion to look back. The other day, it dawned on me that other than the vast amount of liquid assets we have squirreled away (just kidding), we have everything we own with us. We didn’t leave anything back home. There is no “back home.” Our immediate family members reside in Texas, Colorado, Wyoming, and California. Our dogs are with us.
Kip and his sister, Karlyce in her backyard…Greeley, CO
So what is home? It’s a 38′ RV that has recently been pummeled by hail. We’re in the throws of arranging for it to be fixed. Thankfully, we have insurance. That can happen to a house, too, of course.
We had the RV washed and waxed the other day. (Sharp inhale when Kip told me it was going to cost $500.00.) You have to paint and do other upkeep on a house as well, right?
I don’t really mind the smaller living space. We’ve been graduating downward for 10 years. We have a nice little patio that we can put down, and we really enjoy that.
Kip and I with Karlyce’s dog, Charli.We went to church with Karlyce on Sunday. This church was so neat with its red doors and stone walls.
Our biggest frustrations while traveling are bad highways and road construction. Our house shakes, rattles, and rolls. One of my jobs is to find a good RV park for each stay. Often times I search just a couple of hours in advance because we’re not sure how far we’ll get, especially if there is a lot of road construction. Don’t get me wrong, it’s a necessary evil. We’re happy to see improvements in the country’s infrastructure. Finding a park to stay in can, however, create anxiety.
The plus side is we can spend a lot more time with family and friends and they don’t have to put us up. We have our own home with us. We get around to more places than we would if we took car road trips and had to stay in a motel with 2 dogs. We really enjoy new scenery and doing a lot of fun activities. We have all our own things around us. I don’t really like motels anymore. I prefer my own sheets and towels.
Each night, Karlyce is serving up nostalgic meals that their mom made when they were growing up. Tonight we had salmon patties, corn on the cob and her special Rhubarb crunch.Rhubarb Crunch…so good
Best of all, we can travel with our pets and thankfully, they are good travelers.
I’ll be sharing more thoughts about all of this as our adventure continues, but…So far, so great!
Baba is back. We’re not sure where she’s been, but she has returned.
Do you remember the song “Sunflower” by Glenn Campbell? Soup? It was Yram’s mother’s favorite song. Bean soup was her favorite soup.
Not this kind of bean soup.BABA SAYS SHE HAS BEEN ON THE ROAD. HER ROSES HAVE REALLY BEEN NEGLECTED OBVIOUSLY!
Can Baba interview Arnold or Taylor? More importantly, can she interview Klip and May, the easy ones? Can she fertilize and water her sad roses? On a lighter note: Her sunflowers and beans look pretty good, so we have hope. Stay tuned but don’t hold your breath.
After 2 nights in La Veta, CO, we headed for Canon City on Monday morning. We stopped at the Royal Gorge RV Park around 3:00. By the time we went to Walmart to pick up some salads and other essentials and walked the dogs, it was too late to do any sightseeing.
Royal Gorge RV Resort. I could have stayed here a week, but not at $78 per night!View from our RV spotLovely dog parkMom, can we please go to the lovely dog park?
This morning, we were up and out early and drove the 3 miles to the Royal Gorge Bridge. Turns out we were up too early. The park was not going to open for an hour. We only cried a little because it was $35 per person to get into the park. I’m sure it would have been well worth the money.
The Royal Gorge Bridge was constructed in 1929 by the Royal Gorge Amusement Company at a cost of $350,000 (today it would cost more than $18 million).
The Royal Gorge Bridge is 18 feet wide and 1,260 feet long, and 956 feet high
After looking at it, I wasn’t sure I wanted to take the walk because I don’t like heights.
Royal Gorge Bridge Kip said this picture makes me look big. I think it was that extra Danish this morning.Only 956 ft. To go!You can take a train tour, do a zip line, walk across, or fly over the bridge in a helicopter.The park entranceNo, I’m not in the raft, but it sure looked like fun!
After the Royal Gorge, we drove to Lyman, CO where we got a spot at a KOA. I’m now doing laundry. Ho Hum…
On with the adventure. We left Amarillo, TX on Saturday morning and headed for our next stop…La Veta, CO. We’re early risers, and I knew we would get there hours before the check-in time of 2:00 pm. When we arrived at 10:30 am, I panicked.
Me: What are we going to do until 2:00? We can take the legendary scenic drive along Highway 12, but we might not find a place to turn this big RV around? La Veta is a small town. There aren’t that many places we can go in this big RV!
Kip: Yeah, try that in a small town. You’re forgetting that we tow a Jeep. We’ll find a place to park the RV, unhook the Jeep, and take the scenic route.
Me: Oh…
Here are a few pics from Saturday.
Hello, healthy eating. Maybe we’ll start tomorrow. Those fries were great!
Sunday…Once again, we woke up early and headed for The Great Sand Dunes National Park. We stopped along the way and let the dogs go for a run.
What a fun day it was! We saw the sand dunes where people climb as high as they can go and then slide down on a board. Like surfing in the sand.
Next, we went to Zapata Falls. Kip hasn’t quite healed enough from back surgery yet, but I climbed the treacherous 1/2 mile, straight up, rocky trail to the falls. I seriously need to start that healthy eating and add regular exercise. I had to stop and rest a few times. I took a lot of selfies to save face. I couldn’t pretend my shoes needed tying and get some rest that way because my tennis shoes are no-tie slip-ons. Here are a few of the more scenic pics of the day.
The boards they use to sand surfThe Zapata Falls experienceOh well, bad hair dayThe trail to the falls got steeper and rockierYou could walk between the crevices and under the falls. I didn’t.
When we got back to LA Veta, it was time for Kip to panic. He couldn’t find the keys to the RV. After 5 minutes of trying to see under the Jeep seats and watching Kip search his pockets at least 4 times, I finally said, “Are you sure you took the keys from the key hanger thing and locked it?”
He assured me he had. I checked, and he hadn’t. Don’t worry, we’ll make it. Sometimes, we need a little help from our dogs.
We got up Wednesday morning, walked the dogs, finished getting the RV ready to go, hooked up the Jeep, drove to Love’s in Van, TX, where we got gas, aired up all the tires, and weighed our rig. (You have to be under a certain weight.) All that done and it was only 10:00 am.
We got onto I-20 and drove 27 miles past the exit we wanted to take to get on a more scenic backroad highway. We turned around and drove 27 miles back. All we have is time.
We stopped for a late lunch and made it to the Eiffel Tower and Veteran’s Memorial in Paris,TX by 4:00.
Honoring Texas soldiers who fought in the various wars.
The dogs were great and didn’t seem bothered by the fact that we folded up their house and drove it down the road.
Nellie and Rylie (naptime)Nellie enjoying the ride
We stopped for the night at a nice little RV park in Whitesboro, TX.
The next morning…
Kip: I really need to lose a few pounds.
Me: Let’s enjoy ourselves for a couple of days, and then we’ll start eating healthy.
After our cost saving wedding and reception on 24th of July of 1971, we took off that evening on our first honeymoon in our 1964 VW van.
We had just purchased the van for $800, first selling my Mustang which my folks had bought from cousin Bill. My folks- (especially my Mom) – made sure we paid my parents back for every penny with which they had paid for my used 1968 Mustang. The VW had a “lawnmower” engine in it, at least that’s what I called it, which some mechanics had put in for us on the spot, and it needed the valves adjusted every few hundred miles. The top speed for our van was about 50 mph. It wasn’t painted and just had primer on it. We never did paint it. It looked iffy and temporary like a gray box on wheels. You would’ve laughed seeing it. We loved it.
Ken had gotten reservations at a lovely inn up north that we never used. Instead we stopped somewhere in Santa Barbara and slept in the van our first honeymoon night. Next we headed north to Big Sur, first camping at Pfeiffer Big Sur State Park which is an exceptional California jewel of nature. The redwood trees tower over you and the river runs through it, all making you wonder how God and Mother Nature could’ve created such majesty. We were enthralled.
HIGHWAY 1 WINDS ALONG THE PACIFIC OFEAN LEADING TRAVELERS TO BIG SUR AND ALSO ACROSS BIXBY BRIDGE.
We camped at the lovely Pfeiffer State Park then went on up to Lake Shasta north of Redding. We were cooking our own meals on a used gas stove and eating cheaply. A can of chicken noodle soup and crackers tastes pretty decent when you’re on the road traveling. We liked eating simply.
A vivid memory I have of our first and second honeymoon was being in the Slow Lane with all the trucks. I kinda missed my zippy 1968 Mustang but the van offered a free bed, travel and chance at camping in interesting places
During this first idyllic honeymoon, I called home from time to time and mailed picture postcards. My Mom informed me on one call that the school district had been in touch and wanted to know if I would be back when school started as a teacher’s aide. She kept urging me to let them know. She couldn’t do it. I had to come home and contact them in person, filling out paperwork. She wasn’t taking “no” for an answer and I wouldn’t ever say that to my Mom anyway.
So we drove back home at a snail’s pace. I took care of signing up to work next school year as an aide in my parent’s neighborhood school. We spent a couple days regrouping and getting food ready to take on our continued camping trip. Now we would have a partial steady income with the promise of my side job in hand, and with the rest of the summer free, off we went on honeymoon two.
HONEYMOON TWO: ME DRIVING THE VW VAN TO THE GRAND CANYON AND ZION AND BRYCE. AHHH, LIFE IN THE SLOW LANE.
Ken had me close my eyes until he led me up to the rim of the Grand Canyon because I had never seen it before. Honestly, it was eye opening and supremely satisfying to see that natural wonder.
KEN COOKING DINNER ON OUR USED COLEMAN STOVE AT CAMPGROUND IN ZION NATIONAL PARK – JULY 1971.
We kept driving and camping with the goal to visit our friend, DAVE, who had been our best man at our park wedding ceremony. He was in the Marines but had recently been discharged and lived in St Louis, Missouri. He was an all around good player.
KEN GETTING HIS HELMET ON AND DAVE IN ST LOUIS READY TO TAKE A RIDE ON HIS MOTOR CYCLE. OUR 1964 VAN IS IN THE DRIVEWAY AT DAVE’S MOTHER’S HOUSE.
We kept traveling to friend’s and family member’s houses so we could save money and take showers. We also wanted to see them. Iowa, South Dakota and Chicago were on our itinerary. Love leads you on to interesting places and to interesting people.
WITH GREAT AUNT TET IN IOWA WHERE WE SPENT ONE NIGHT. SHE WORKED FOR MANY YEARS AT THE FAMILY GENERAL STORE IN SD AND RETIRED TO A SMALL TOWN IN IOWA WHERE SHE HAD RELATIVES. SHE AND GREAT AUNT MELITHA SERVED US A BIG BREAKFAST THE MORNING WE LEFT. IT WAS DELICIOUS & GREATLY APPRECIATED.
KEN AND GRANDPA SANDERSON FISHING IN THE BLACK HILLS. WE STAYED WITH HIM AT HIS APARTMENT IN SPEARFISH AND OF COURSE WENT TO THE PASSION PLAYAND HIKED UP TO SEE THE THOEN STONE, WHICH IS A LONG STORY.
Next we headed to Murdo. Grandpa went also in his own car. Ken went fishing again with him and was more tired than Grandpa at day’s end.
WE STAYED AT AUNT ELNA AND UNCLE JERRY’S HOUSE. THIS PICTURE WAS TAKEN LATE AT NIGHT IN THEIR DRIVEWAY.
After a few days of rest,we drove on, being refreshed and ready to get on to Chicago where Ken had been born and raised.
This picture shows Aunt Elna reading a letter, Ken and I and cousin Stephanie. I wore one of the 1970 style cheap shorts. You would take an old pair of pants and cut them off, then fold up the bottom part. This was taken the morning we headed out for Chicago.
ONTO CHICAGO.
Ken and I stayed with his grandmother in her old brick house in Chicago. She lived alone. She made fabulous homemade meals for us and let us stay as long as we wanted. We visited some of Ken’s old school chums. They partied a lot. I rode the EL with Ken and broke down crying riding through the slums. Poverty wasn’t anything I had seen before. It saddened me. I recovered. It was a muggy, hot time in the city in summer, but we enjoyed it all.
KEN’S GRANDMOTHER AND I OUT FRONT OF HER HOUSE IN CHICAGO.
We eventually got home and rented a small apartment by our college to finish up classes for teaching. We were back to reality and life, at a faster pace. A young man bought our van promising to pay the full amount later, but he never gave us the full price we had asked. It was sad to see it go. We rented an apartment at $90 a month.
AN OLD VW BUG WITH A TRAVEL RACK ON TOP. THIS BUG IS NOW WORTH QUITE A LOT.
AN OLD VW VAN WITH A STICKER THAT WE NEEDED IN 1971. OUR OLD VAN DID NOT HAVE A BUMPER.
Today, now in my 70’s, I went to a car show downtown and saw those old Volkswagens displayed by VW van and car clubs with their shiny fixed up older models. It took me back to our two honeymoon’s in 1971 and driving our old VW van, being in the slow lane, always in the slow lane….loving every minute.
This photo is at our small wedding reception in 1971 with my new husband and his brother. Those long sideburns and the long hair were popular then as were The Rolling Stones, Fleetwood Mac, Pink Floyd and others. The Vietnam War was still raging and we had lost high school classmates in it. Things seemed unstable in the world but love kept us going.
Being 70ish I have often looked back into the past which is something many aging people do. Yesterday was our 52nd anniversary so I had lots of memories to revisit. Things were different and people seemed to be different, the whole world was different in the 1970’s.
Maybe you were fortunate to have parents or a relative who set aside a chunk of money for you to have a big wedding when the time came, adding a large fancy reception as well. I was not as lucky. Plus my midwestern raised Mom was practical, frugal and did not believe in throwing away money on a simple thing like getting married. My parents did not have much money and I had a couple low paying part time jobs while getting through college. That meant a cheap, cost cutting and efficient wedding. Sounds simple, but it led to a stressful time and a major realization that my fiancé and I had to put our collective foot down eventually. We knew we wanted it to be inexpensive and creative.
We planned for the day to be in July and wanted to go to a park we liked for a ceremony with only family. We got a judge to promise he would do the honors at the park for a small fee. Judge Bach arrived in his shiny new corvette that day in July of 1971. He said some perfect words before the regular “I do” part. He said we were free thinkers and we were getting married in the park because that’s what we wanted and we two were independent, young and original, wanting a uniquely simple place to be married and we were in love. Others in our family wanted us to get married more traditionally but we decided to do it our own way. My Mom said we were too young and did not even have decent jobs. I still needed to do my student teaching, but we both had gotten our college degrees that summer. We persevered. We were getting hitched and the purple wedding invitations had been sent out.
AT THE PARK WITH MARRIAGE LICENSE IN HAND, WE WERE OFF TO THE CONDO CLUBHOUSE FOR THE DO IT YOURSELF RECEPTION.
THE NEW BRIDE AT THE RECEPTION WITH TWO GUITAR PLAYERS WE HIRED TO PLAY AS PEACEFUL BACKGROUND MUSIC.
THE WEDDING CAKE WAS SMALL BUT DELICIOUS FROM A LOCAL BAKERY. I PAID FOR IT AND FROZE THE LEFTOVERS BECAUSE THE SMALL GROUP DIDN’T EAT MUCH.
MY MOM, UNCLE BILL, WHO WAS THE BEST DRESSED GUY THERE AND WRITING US A CHECK AS A GENEROUS GIFT AND MY DAD. I ALWAYS LIKED UNCLE BILL AND HE HAD FUN THAT DAY.
Another thing I had planned with my frugal Mom and cousin and best friend was our cost cutting reception. My cousin and Mom would cook the appetizers and make a punch in our big punch bowl from KMart. My husband’s folks would buy the champagne. They were against the whole idea of getting married in a park and the do it yourself reception. But we didn’t listen. I would pay for the small wedding cake and bouquet and a couple centerpieces. We would hold it at my parent’s clubhouse in their large condo complex. I even bought my own non traditional wedding dress and I made my necklace and lace shawl myself. My cousin and best friend made their own dresses and were quasi-bridesmaids just helping at the reception. We had hired two classical guitar players also which lent a peaceful sweet addition to it all. It was a fun day in the end. My fiancé’s parents weren’t too happy in the beginning, they persisted and had offered to pay for a small chapel, but we declined their offer. Some stress and rough feelings came forth. However, it all worked out. We set down what we wanted as a simple 1971 style wedding and reception.
After some food and cake, I threw the bouquet and Ken threw my blue garter. We had a good time with about 30 friends and family members attending and it didn’t break the bank. My Mom and Dad were happy and Ken and I were happy. We got ready to leave that night for our first honeymoon in our 1964 VW van with its built in handmade bed and we took camping gear we had bought separately. We had gotten money and a few gifts so the gifts stayed at my folks house and the money we used to travel plus we had some savings thanks to Ken saving his good tips and pay as a bellboy at a new hotel near Disneyland. We kissed our job’s goodbye as we kissed our friends and relatives goodbye and took off at a brisk 50 mph in the old VW van for Northern California.
Coming soon : Part 2- Multiple Honeymoons 1970’s Style