Murdo Girl…Three quarters of a century

Kip’s birthday was yesterday. He turned seventy-five. I was just getting used to my brother, Billy, turning seventy-five two weeks ago. The only sign of aging I’ve noticed in them these past few years, is their naps are getting longer. When Billy calls me, it’s usually right after his afternoon nap. I think he’s using me to regain full consciousness. He sounds pretty groggy at first. Kip doesn’t do that. I can count the times he’s called his three sisters in the past few years on one hand. They make sure they stay in touch.


We had a good time Sunday night with the girls and their families. We met for Mexican food and I made cupcakes. The kids were all good. Hudson’s Mom did catch him pinching his brother, but when she said not to do that, he said, “I wasn’t pinching, I was massaging his arm.”

20190811_204132From left: Heather’s husband, Scott, Heidi’s husband, Brad, Kip, Heather, granddaughter, Nikki (Heidi’s daughter) and Justin, (Nikki’s husband) Kids from left are: Hudson, (Scott and Heather), Ryan Constance, great granddaughter (Nikki and Justin), Nikki is Heidi and Brad’s daughter. 

We have twelve more that live too far away to make it. Son Mason and wife, Amy, have two boys, Mason Jr. and Ethan. Son Craig and wife, April, have two daughters, Olivia and Charlie. Grandson, Mike and wife, Amber, have a son and a daughter, Griffin and Kai.

There are twenty-four of us. Are you ready for the test?

Yesterday we went to Denny’s for breakfast. You get your breakfast free if it’s your birthday. Some good friends told us about it and we all went. I love having a leisurely breakfast and time to visit after.

You know what they say, “Age is nothing but a state of mind.” What is that supposed to mean?

I just googled it. There are four states of mind. When you combine the types of focus (helpful and harmful) you get four distinct states of mind: autopilot, critical, thinking, and engaged. We want to be in the helpful states.

All that means to me is you’re either in a good mood or a bad mood. I’m just guessing, but I would say thinking and engaged are the helpful, and critical and autopilot are harmful.

Many of us think we have to be, look, and act like everyone else to fit in. I read something that made sense to me. God doesn’t want an orchestra of identical instruments all playing the same tune.


He wants us to let go of the status quo and just be ourselves. Anything else is too exhausting.

I’m going to start asking myself if what I’m doing is helpful or harmful and remember Shakespeare’s words, “To thine own self be true.” I’ll add, “Don’t wait for a better time to follow your heart.”


Are you trying to tell me that this was a snoozer?


4 thoughts on “Murdo Girl…Three quarters of a century

  1. sanjuan831 August 14, 2019 / 9:33 am

    Agree with Scoper. How did everyone get served their food at this bday dinner? Such a fun looking day for Kip. Did you eat the cupcakes while waiting? I definitely could not pass your family name test.
    Love Kip’s shirt plan.


    • Mary Francis McNinch August 14, 2019 / 1:06 pm

      We were very pleased by the service and the food. Kip bought 4 pink t-shirts and a pink hat. He wears them when we go out. He said until after 9/24 surgery when we get the all clear!


  2. scoper07 August 14, 2019 / 6:29 am

    Nice looking family. Belated happy birthday to Kip and Billy. Too bad all of your children and grandchildren couldn’t make the trip.


    • Mary Francis McNinch August 14, 2019 / 1:03 pm

      Yeah 07 but they called. Mason & family live in Wyoming and Craig’s family lives 2 hrs away and Craig is out of town for his company.


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