The Story of Abby Ann…part 3

“What was that?” Aaron asked as Aunt Bea made her sudden, but dramatic exit. The rather eccentric lady  was certainly the polar opposite of my Mother, who had been proper in demeanor, and dressed the part. Mother was beige and Aunt Beatrice was…multicolored.

“We need to discuss this Aaron. I mean moving clear across the country is a huge undertaking. We don’t know what will be expected of us. We haven’t even met the gentleman who, from the sound of it, needs quite a bit of care. The attorney’s letter said Aunt Bea is ill as well, which is the reason she can no longer be responsible for Uncle Charles.” I knew I was rambling.

Aaron came to sit on the footstool next to the chair I was seated in. “I think we both know it’s a done deal  Andrea,” He said. “Besides, your Aunt Bea and Uncle Charles are the only extended family we have now. Don’t you think getting to know them would be good for Mandy? After all she doesn’t have any living Grandparents.”

Just then, the housekeeper came into the drawing room carrying a silver tray with an envelope on it. She handed it to me without a word. She then knelt beside Mandy, who was still busy playing, and stroked her long, blond, curls. “I’m so happy Abby Ann found you.” She said. She was smiling as she left the room.

Inside the envelope was a letter from Aunt Bea’s attorney. It was brief and to the point, just as my Aunt had been.

It stated that if we agreed to allow Miss Beatrice Sanders and Mr. Charles Sanders to continue to live here until their death, we would receive the title to the house and grounds. We were to receive a stipend that would be more than enough to maintain the property and care for my Aunt and Uncle indefinitely. He also said he would be here in person the following day with all the necessary paperwork for the agreement and transfer of ownership.

“Welcome home my loves,”I said. “Let’s take a look around.”

 

“Guess what Mommy, Andy came back, but he’s a doll now.” Aaron and I both looked back toward the dollhouse. I recognized the Abby Ann doll, and next to her was a little boy doll. “Where are you finding all these playthings?” Aaron asked.

“They found me Daddy.” She explained.” They want me to stay here and not go away anymore.”

Aaron looked at me and smiled. We were both thinking that our daughter had quite an imagination.

 

We had very little time to explore before lunch, so we decided to take a short walk and enjoy some fresh air. The grounds were beautiful. Everywhere we looked there were flowers, hedges, and trees. Inside the circular driveway, there was a small pond with a fountain in the center. A short distance beyond a row of well manicured hedges, was a small area surrounded by a wrought-iron fence.

“I wonder what’s over there,” I said. “It looks so pretty and peaceful.”

“I know,”Mandy said, “It’s where they make dolls.”

“Come on you silly goose,” Aaron chided, “let’s go find the dining room, l’m starving.”

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We had just seated ourselves, when we heard a humming sound followed by a loud crash. Aaron jumped up and started for the door, when for the 2nd time that day, Aunt Bea almost ran him down. He flattened himself against the wall and she managed to get by him. “Goodness,” she said as she tried to straighten her hat with one hand, while steering with the other. She came to a stop, got off her electric wheel chair, walked over to the head of the table, and sat down. She picked up the little bell, and rang to signal the kitchen we were ready to be served.

She looked festive, and with a big smile on her face, she asked us to join hands, after which she said grace.

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The Story of Abby Ann…part 2

I hated to wake Mandy this early, so I took some time to look around the rather opulent
bedroom. It was lavishly decorated in pink and white. If Mandy could choose her fantasy bedroom, this would be it, I thought. It was at least three times as big as her room at home, and it was evident the decorator knew little girls. Everything was meant to delight a princess. On one end of the room, there was a pint sized rack of dress-up clothes with everything from cowgirl to ballerina costumes. Beside it was a huge mirror and a dancer’s practice bar. Across from the play area, was a reading nook complete with what seemed to be every children’s book written. Everything was appropriate and perfect for a ten year old.

 

I was about to check out the closets, when I heard Mandy stir. “Mommy,” she said, “Can I keep her?” She was sitting up in bed, holding on tightly to the pretty little doll.

“Well, good morning to you too!” I said, as I sat beside her on the bed. “Where did you find her?”

“She came to me in the night. She said she was happy that I came back. Have we been here before Mommy?”

“No sweet pea, we have never been here.” It appeared that Mandy was already caught up in the fantasies the room inspired. “What else did she say?” I asked, deciding to play along.

“She wanted to know if Andy came back too. I don’t know who that is, so I didn’t answer. I asked her what her name was. She said she’s still Abby Ann. She wants us to play with the big dollhouse.”

“What dollhouse?” I asked.

“I don’t know Mommy. I’ll ask her when she talks to me again. Can we have breakfast now? I’m hungry.”

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At a little before 9:00, the three of us headed downstairs for breakfast. The housekeeper who helped us get settled the night before, was standing at the bottom of the stairs ready to show us to the breakfast room. Once we were all seated, she informed us that Miss Sanders would not be joining us for breakfast, but would meet with us in the drawing room at 10:30. The kitchen helper who served us was none too friendly to Aaron or me, but was very attentive to Mandy. The food was delicious.

From what I had seen of the house so far, it appeared that Mandy’s room was an oasis in the desert. Everything was in good repair, but much of it was either dark or gaudy.

I was without a clue as to why Mother hadn’t told me much about Aunt Beatrice, and nothing at all about Uncle Charles or this incredible country estate. I found myself eager to meet my long lost relatives.

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The drawing room was straight out of the 19th century. The wood trim was beautiful, and nothing appeared worn, but the colors were dark and dreary.

A robust voice interrupted my silent critique. Aunt Beatrice made her entrance seated on an51e27994ce0bc565325c69e4babfcd23 electric wheelchair, and was driving a little too fast. She

stopped just short of running over Aaron. Whatever was dark and dreary about the house, Aunt Beatrice compensated for. She was wearing a bright blue boa, and a red hat. Her lipstick was bright red, and her perfume was overpowering. She was tiny, yet bigger than life.

 

“Hellooo, you must be Aaron,” she said as she raised her hand. I could tell Aaron didn’t know whether to kiss it or shake it. Instead, he sort of bowed to her. “It’s very nice to meet you Miss Sanders,” he said. “Please…call me Aunt Bea,” she insisted. “How delightful to finally meet all of you. Now… I’m in need of a nap, so I must get right to the point.” She began to fan herself, and she seemed short of breath.

“The three of you must move to the estate without delay,” she said. “I can no longer care for my brother Charles. Goodness, he can neither live nor die. You do not need to go back to your home. My attorney will take care of everything.”

At this point, I interrupted her. “We can’t possibly do as you ask, we both have our work and Mandy has school.”

“Nonsense,” she was having none of it. “Aaron travels all the time, you work from home, and Mandy will be tutored.”

“When are you planning to move?” I asked.

“Move? I’m not going anywhere,” she said. And with that, she fired up her chair, made a u-turn turn  and left the room.

I looked to see where Mandy had disappeared to, and found her behind us, playing with an incredibly beautiful dollhouse and her new friend Abby Ann.

 

 

The Story of Abby Ann…part 1

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It seemed like a good idea at the time. I mean,who wouldn’t jump at the chance to move from a small house in the suburbs to a country estate? We were as happy as any couple living the American dream. It wasn’t even that we were looking for a change, but change was looking for us.

On a Monday, I received a registered letter from an attorney’s office back east. I do freelance work from home, so I was there when it arrived. I opened and read it before sitting down, but I had to sit down, and read it again.

I lost my Mother several years ago. I knew she had a sister, whom I had never met. Mother told me they were estranged, but I was never curious enough to ask why. The contents of the letter told me of another relative I knew nothing about.

Dear Mrs. Allen,

I am writing on behalf of your Mother’s sister, Miss Beatrice Sanders. It has become necessary that she meet with you regarding your Uncle, Mr. Charles Sanders. Your Aunt has been his caretaker for many years, but unfortunately, she herself has become too ill to continue this arrangement. You, Mrs. Allen are the only other living relative.

Mrs. Sanders is very aware of the inconvenience this will most likely impose on you, however; time is of the essence. She has requested that I make arrangements for you and your family to meet with her at your Uncle’s home.

Please contact me at your earliest convenience. Mrs. Sanders has requested you arrive on Friday the 12th.

I have enclosed a card with my direct number. I will await your call.

Regards,

Michael J.Simpson                                                                                                                               Attorney at law

My husband Aaron, was on a business trip, and was to be home the following evening. Our 10 year old daughter, Mandy was home with a cold that day. She was feeling better by the afternoon, and was happily playing with her Barbie dolls in her room.

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It never occurred to us not to go. We took a flight on Friday as requested. The attorney arranged to have a car drive us to my Uncle’s home. It was dark, so we weren’t able to see much during the two hour drive, but it appeared Uncle Charles lived in a fairly remote area.

When we arrived at the country estate and stepped out of the car, we didn’t know we were getting our first glimpse of what would become our home.

It wasn’t an extremely old house, and it wasn’t a farmhouse. It was unlike any house I had ever seen before.

We were shown to our rooms by an older woman who appeared to be a housekeeper. She offered to bring us dinner, and told us my Aunt would meet with us in the morning. Mandy took one look at her room and smiled, then fell asleep as soon as her head hit the pillow. Aaron and I were exhausted as well, so we didn’t look around at all before falling into bed.

I woke up before dawn, and went across the hall to check on Mandy. She was still sound asleep. She looked like a little angel. It was then I noticed, cradled in her arms, was a pretty little doll that I knew didn’t belong to my daughter.

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Bonnie Blue…part 5…existing or living

20160214_215420-1I hardly slept that night. There had to be clues that I was missing. I went over every detail I could recall, from the first time I saw the doll at Goodwill until now. Was Bonnie Blue manipulating me just for the fun of it? Was she trying to tell me something about her past? Maybe she needed my help, but why?

As the night turned into morning, I grabbed some paper and a pen. I wanted to organize all the thoughts, questions, and possible clues I had come up with. I sat cross-legged on my bed for the better part of two hours, without even so much as a cup of coffee. I was driven, and I wanted nothing to distract me.

When I had exhausted everything including myself, I laid my pen down and looked over my notes. Four things puzzled me. First, she had wept when I said, “welcome home,” right after she told me her name. This was one of very few times she had displayed any kind of emotion. Next, she had alluded to having a fairytale life. She had said life, as if she had lived not mearly existed in the form of a doll. Thirdly, the stuffed pony had appeared out of nowhere and then just as suddenly… vanished. It seemed that Bonnie Blue had been trying to draw attention to the pony. It was after it disappeared, she said she was going to ride him. The fourth and last thought I had written on my paper was indeed, the last thing she had asked of me. I was to think about a moment, no, a defining moment in my life that had changed everything.20160214_223232

Suddenly, I heard myself gasp! Next to the  last thought I had written, I had drawn a picture of a little girl sitting on a swing. She was lovely, and seemed to be very peaceful and content. She was looking at the rainbow of colors in a nearby flower garden. There was nothing about this child I recognized. I looked again, and saw beautiful curls framing her striking face. The curls were red… I sat very still, looking at my drawing. I felt slightly dazed as I laid the paper down and got up from the bed.

The pony had vanished, had Bonnie Blue gone away too?

What?? I’m turning 64?

Kip and I have been home from our dream vacation for a couple of months now. Kip has had some health issues, and in a family our size, a little rain falls sometimes, but we have also had an amazing Thanksgiving and Christmas. We were a family of four when we got married and we have grown to 22 with 2 more great-grands on the way. They are all such blessings.

After being gone awhile, I think we both realize that after your kids are grown, your friends at home are what make it ” home.” Family is where your heart is no matter where you roam.

Back to me. It is now 3:47 a.m. on 12/30/15. On 12/31, I turn (choke, caugh, sputter,) 64.

I couldn’t sleep and I started thinking. After 64 years, there is a lot of life to contemplate. Here, my dear, is how little ol me has changed the course of history.

If I had not been born:

Mason and Craig are children I gave birth to. Mason Jr. And Ethan were born in Wyoming. Mason moved back there after living with us in Wyoming, California, and Texas. Olivia and Charlie wouldn’t have been born if Kip and I had not married and moved to Texas.

Mike, Nikki, Seamus, and Hudson would not have been born because Heidi and Heather, who became my daughters (lovingly shared with me by their Mother Dianne), would not have lived in Colorado and Texas. All future offspring are who they are because Kip and I got married. All of our children’s Mothers and Fathers-in-laws would not have all of those beautiful grandchildren and great-grandchildren in their lives. Are you hearing me Wife-in-law😉?

Ask yourself this. How many lives would be different if you had not been born? Who would miss you most if you died tomorrow? I think your partner in life, because when it comes right down to it, they are the ones most vested in you. Which brother, sister, friend, enemy, cousin, grandchild, co-worker, in-law, that one person who’s life you have touched and maybe didn’t even know it. Who would think about all of the things you said and did the most? I really contemplated this and I was amazed. There were some amens and some uh-ohs.

For instance, when she was alive, my Mother and I did not have the best of relationships. Now, not a day goes by that I don’t think about her and laugh about something she did or smile at the wisdom of the things she said.

God, I am important and I was meant to be!

Some good stuff happened! If you’re reading this, I’m thinking about you, because you must be a loving family member or a true friend 😉.

Happy Birthday to me!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

See Ya Soon (Days 36 and 37) Santa Fe…The oldest capitol city in America

Outside the Cathedral Basilica of St. Francis of Assisi
Outside the Cathedral Basilica of St. Francis of Assisi

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So awe inspiring inside the Cathedral
So awe inspiring inside the Cathedral
Shopping on San Francisco St...fashion Tuesday..love the blue shoes.
Shopping on San Francisco St…fashion Tuesday..love the blue shoes.
So awe inspiring ...Cathedral Basiica
The wooden statue La Conquistadora…Our country’s oldest Madonna (1625)
The Miraculous Staircase. Nuns prayed to the Saint of Carpenters for someone who could build the stairs
The Miraculous Staircase. Nuns prayed to the Saint of Carpenters for someone who could build the stairs
Beautiful stained glass throughout the Cathedral
Beautiful stained glass throughout the Cathedral

I’m writing this on Friday, and we’re less than 200 miles from home. There will be a couple more posts, but I wanted to show a little of what we saw during our 2 days in Santa Fe. We found a nice RV park just 5 miles from the historical Plaza, which was great since we had to go back and forth to take care of the animals. Once we got our parking spot, everything we saw and did was within walking distance. There is so much history here that I can’t do it justice in this short blog.

This depiction is amazing.
This depiction is amazing.
The priest's chair
The priest’s chair

We’re so happy we decided to make this side trip.

See Ya Soon (Day 36) Grants, NM…coming soon Sante Fe!

See Ya in Grants NM
See Ya in Grants NM

Kip reminded me this morning (Thursday) that I hadn’t talked about our one night stay in Grants, NM.

As you all know, I am in charge of finding the RV parks. I’m always a little stressed because sometimes it’s mid afternoon before we know how far we’re going to make it so we can get set up and walk the dogs before dark.

I then look at KOA parks, Good Sams approved, and the internet. I like to look at all of the websites searching for photos, which are the most telling. I also have a map in hand that shows which towns and cities have campgrounds. Then I call to make a reservation. My anxiety doesn’t go away until we pull in and see it for ourselves. I only make reservations in advance if we’re planning to stay more than one night and I know we can make it. Most parks require a deposit when you reserve.

Grants, NM proved to be a pleasant surprise. It is a KOA park in a fairly small city. The owners were so accommodating. They not only gave us fresh, homemade cookies when we arrived, but we could have purchased a turkey, pizza, or brisket dinner. We didn’t do that, but we did purchase a big slice of pie brought to our door with ice cream. Kip had peach and I had mixed berry with rhubarb. We were in camper heaven. They also had a free continental breakfast in the morning. There was a long walking trail through the black black lava rocks from previous volcanic activity.

My only regret is that I didn’t get more photos. You can do all your homework while picking a spot, but in the end luck comes into play too.

I was feeling pretty smug about my booking and navigation skills until yesterday when it took 3 times to get out of Santa Fe. I blame it on the GPS lady because it was clear she didn’t know about all the road work and detours we had to maneuver.

The lesson of the day: Don’t cast your plans in stone, it will most likely cause great anxiety. Oh, and you MUST appreciate your navigater/RV park finder, maybe even send her flowers when you get home.

What does Kip do? He only does all of the driving, he cleans the cat litter after he has hooked us up to water, sewer, and cable TV. He picks up all of the doggie dodo on all of our walks, fixes things that need fixed and the list goes on. Maybe I’ll tell him he doesn’t have to send me flowers.

See Ya Soon (Day 35, Monday) The 3 P’s

The master...wish I had a dollar for every bag😁
The master…wish I had a dollar for every bag😁
Cyndie Lou They all loved the 1/2 Acre dog park in Santa Fe
Cyndie Lou
They all loved the 1/2 Acre dog park in Santa Fe
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This is the “other” couch
Sammie Sue
Sammie Sue
Kip has a poop bag holder attached to his belt all the time..He and Lynn sent to a nice lunch Kip said
Kip has a poop bag holder attached to his belt all the time..Lynn took him to a nice lunch. Kip said “I guess I’ll take the poop bags off.” Lynn said “Yeah, no one has pooped in here in ages.”
Yipee!
Yipee!
Pattie Rue...this is about as fast as she goes
Pattie Rue…this is about as fast as she goes
Hi...I'm the persnickety cat...Dollie Lee
Hi…I’m the persnickety cat…Dollie Lee
Woops...this isn't ours?
Woops…this isn’t ours?

PETS…PARKS…AND…P_ _PER SCOOPERS

See Ya Soon (Day 34) Route 66

Williams, AZ
Williams, AZ
Route 66
Route 66
Kitty in her favorite spot in the dash window
Kitty in her favorite spot in the dash window
Kip won't like that I posted this, but I had to document that he got the couch and the pets are unhappily on the floor
Kip won’t like that I posted this, but I had to document that he got the couch and the pets are unhappily on the floor
On Rt. 66
On Rt. 66
Down Town
Down Town
Main St.
Main St.
Wooden man outside a store front
Wooden man outside a store front

It must seem as though Kip and I aren’t going to stop until we run out of road. As I write this on Monday evening, we are about 750 miles from home. We took another side trip to Santa Fe, NM which is where we’ll be until Wednesday morning, then it’ll be a straight line to Mabank, TX.

Before we left Williams Sunday morning, Kip and I spent some time taking pictures of their unique and fun downtown area. The theme is based on the fact that the old Route 66 goes through Main Street. Staying in this little town, a short drive from the Southern rim of The Grand Canyon, proved to be a most enjoyable 2 days.

I’m going to have to stop here and catch up later…tomorrow…Exploring Santa Fe!!!

See Ya Soon (Day 33 Saturday) The Grand Canyon

We arrived in Williams, AZ late Friday afternoon and it was pouring down rain. The old route 66 runs down the town’s main Street and reminders of the Highway are prevalent. Our plan was to put the dogs in the Jeep and drive up to the South rim of the Grand Canyon on Saturday. The lady who checked us in, said the forecast was for more cold rain. Since neither of us had seen the Grand Canyon, we decided to stay 2 nights and hope for the best.

To say we were blown away is an understatement. The weather was perfect. It started to rain again as we left the Grand Canyon State Park, and it’s still raining. We’re grateful for both blessings.

We met and visited with several people who were from oversees, and of course, they all wanted to pet the dogs. One couple from England said they have a dog named Cindy that looks just like our Cyndie. The only distraction we had all day was that Sammie cried the whole time. We have no idea why she was upset.

This trip continues to be unbelievable…

I’ll let the pictures do the talking!!IMG_20151017_112947_576

Pooped out puppies
Pooped out puppies

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