Murdo Girl…The power of a story

Thinking about family tonight. All of the generations...

Never underestimate the power of a story.

I have more tales than I can count in my inventory.

I’ve heard them told so many times, I should know them all by heart.

On both sides of my family storytelling is an art.

First there was my Grandpa, whose stories never ended.

Just as it was winding up, his story was amended.

I try to tell Dad’s stories. Most are favorites of mine,

But I usually crack up, before getting to the punchline.

“How many guys work for you?” The question made Dad laugh.

“I’m not really sure,” he said. “But I think it’s close to half.”

Though Mom could tell a story, the ones about her are the best.

She was outspoken, quick and witty… and by far the funniest.

They’d ask, “Can you keep a secret? She’d say, “Not even for one day.”

She said they always told her… their secret, anyway.

Gus tells stories too, when we’re all reminiscing.

But everyone can’t talk. We need him for listening.

Brother Billy knows all the good ones… and tells them perfectly.

You know the story’s over when he laughs and slaps his knee.

The stories I like to hear again

are those that start…remember when

Passed from one generation to another,

They make us feel part of each other.

Remember

Jesus taught his children through those great stories we call parables… another story category.

No, never underestimate the power of a story.

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The Sanderson Family

The photograph is of my Mother’s family. LB: Jeff Sanderson, Grandpa M.E. Sanderson, Wayne Sanderson…FL: Grandma Mary Sanderson, Ella Leckey, Helen Haverberg, Loretta Gustafson, and Elna Miller. They are all together againWhat a beautiful and remarkable family to have been and continue to be a part of.

Tonight’s Music…Sentimental Journey…from the 40’s

Murdo Girl…Flawlessness is flawed

The object of rejection is very sad indeed.

To be loved and well respected is a very human need.

The object often cannot see what stares them in the face.

With a recent introspect, I found that to be the case.

Was it something that I said, or something I had done?

I had no recollection of offending anyone.

I began to listen as I voiced my own obsessions.

Were the comments I called feedback really passive aggressions?

Things I disliked in others became infused in my demeanor.

I focused on your flaws and mine became much keener.

I came to the conclusion I had always been just fine.

Until my focus turned to you…

It’s all your fault, not mine.

I guess the only answer is to keep talking till I drop.

If you say that you’re not listening, I’ll tell your voice to stop.

I’ll remind you often that I know of what I speak.

You’ll become much wiser if it’s my council that you seek.

What did you just say? I should stay out of your dealings?

Now you’ve really done it. You’ve gone and hurt my feelings.

And now for the song of the day…

Has she hit the road, Yet?
That’s Hiway 16. She must be headed for Murdo

Murdo Girl…Conflict and resolution

I have no idea how this post relates to the title I chose, but I can’t think of a better one, so I’m going with it.

Kip had a doctor’s appointment in Dallas this morning, so the dogs have taken it upon themselves to keep a close eye on me. They love car rides, and since they weren’t able to go with him, they’re not going to miss a second chance should I happen to go somewhere. I have over 100 lbs trying to sit on my lap. I think I’ll get up.

It’s going to be a beautiful day. I think I will pack up my rock flower garden. (I’m giving it to my granddaughter, Ryan.) I have some outside decorating to do.

I’m keeping an eye on the Ukrainian news, and those brave people are in my prayers. Maybe their fight is the point of my blog title. We’re all waiting for a resolution that will leave Ukraine whole and able to heal from all the devastation.

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The music I chose for today is a favorite song of mine by The Four Seasons. I loved that group when I was a teenager growing up in Murdo, SD. I’m getting all psyched up for the all school reunion in July…

Have a great Wednesday….

Murdo Girl…I’m Drinking from My Saucer

This is a favorite song/poem that Jerry Davis brought to my attention. In fact, the last two songs I featured on the blog were Jerry’s suggestions. This time, you will hear him recite it with that great country voice of his…

After the video, I’ve added a few photos of Pat and Jerry Davis. The best two people you’d ever want to meet…

Murdo Girl…No longer at large

It wasn’t exactly love at first sight. I wasn’t used to having two youngsters around. They weren’t/aren’t exactly wallflowers, either. They weren’t cute enough to get by with what the really cute ones do.

But that all changed…

They are the two cutest things you could ever imagine. They both have personality plus and they are so, so smart. With the help of a trainer, they have taught Kip and I all kinds of things. We sit, stay, rollover, and hardly ever bark anymore. They have to keep a lot of treats on hand, but if that’s the price of learning to behave, then it’s worth it,

They said they needed a bigger chair, too

So we bought both…A new lamp is also on the shopping list.

Today’s beautiful song…Sit, Stay and Listen

Be a Goldenrod From “Rhymes for all Times by Mary Francis McNinch

You’re a baby sleeping soundly and your mother stands nearby.

She listens for a whimper or a cry.

Her heart is full of love and her thoughts are full of fears.

Don’t let me fail this child, she prays through tears.

Will the face that looks so peaceful match his feelings deep inside?

Can she be the kind of mother whose child looks at her with pride?

Love is Faith…

You’re a youngster starting school and your mother says goodbye.

She’s so happy you’re excited. There’s a twinkle in her eye.

But school is really hard. You try your best but it’s too tough.

The other kids convince you that you just aren’t smart enough.

Your mother has your eyes checked and your teacher gives you tests.

And the reason for the problem manifests.

Dyslexia

Love is Courage

You’re a teenager and troubled by what’s happening at home.

Even with the others there, you feel like you’re alone.

So you run around with kids who are going through things, too.

You make promises you’ll do things, but you just can’t follow through.

Your mom, lost in a sea of guilt, knows things have gone too far.

She wishes she could help you to be who you really are.

Love is patience…

You’re a young adult and you’ve worked hard to turn your life around.

Life is never perfect, but you’ve climbed to higher ground.

Once again your mother prays through tears.

So very much has happened through the years.

She knows she did the best she could, but doubts her child agrees.

She made mistakes and didn’t see the forest for the trees.

Love is forever…

They took a bumpy road, but found a place to make their peace.

And in the end they both came to believe.

They let others help them find what they couldn’t find alone.

They felt valued as they reaped the better seeds that they had sewn.

“They learned that all people are flawed, but God is God.”

Help someone with a challenge, today. Be a goldenrod

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Murdo Girl…We’re classing up the place

This video is a summary of where we are in our dog training, complete with an impromptu demonstration. I also discuss the Nutrisystem diet, and remind you to sign up for the amazing giveaway my niece, Erin is going to announce on the 28th. She might not be announcing the winner then, but that is the deadline to enter. I HAVE HIRED A NEW EDITOR!

This is the new editor…I was hired to make her blog look more like Gallant Heart Media (gallantheartmedia.com)…BLAHAHAHA

Rylie’s outhouse
Dollie’s Outhouse

Nellie has the remainder of the yard!

Murdo Girl…Gallant Heart Media…WOW

I’m doing another recording tonight, which will be explained in the video. You don’t want to miss this one.

The possibilities are endless…

I love my new crown necklace…I don’t have the words to describe how your gift touched my heart and changed my attitude… Thank you, Sherri.

I saw this young gentleman when we were at Dairy Queen this morning. I asked his mom if he could learn how to drive a convertible by July.

Murdo Girl…Some things never change

I have an inability. It’s time for me to own it.

It drives some people crazy and there’s no one who’ll condone it.

It gives me many problems of the stressful kind.

And if the truth be known, it’s such a waste of time.

If I have a stack of papers and must put them all in order,

I spend hour after hour reordering disorder.

I find and lose the stack more than once or twice

Those who wait until I’m done are those who pay the price

Don’t give me a task with double digits and a spread sheet.

Before I’ve even started, I’ll admit defeat.

No matter how much storage space I have on my devices,

I never hit delete, so “to find” becomes a crisis.

Now that I’ve confessed that I’m the Queen of disaray,,

If we practice some acceptance, everyone will be okay.

We’re going to school…